-
(单词翻译:双击或拖选)
2
An interview with Biography magazine
Biography: What was the hardest part about handling your own chronic2 discontent?
Downs: What brought me to the brink3 was realizing what I had done to so many personal relationships in my life. This was coupled with the obligation I felt as a psychologist to have known better. It was a double whammy.
Symptoms
Biography: What are some symptoms to look for?
Downs: For one, there’s constant disappointment, and also feelings of helplessness, lack of motivation and passion.
Biography: We all get irritable4 from time to time, and complain about our jobs or want a new house or new car. How can you tell the difference?
Downs: Chronic discontent is an ongoing5 trend. You can’t find anything that makes you happy for any length of time. That’s different from going through a bad patch for a couple of days, which all of us do. However, the person with chronic discontent never wakes up from that bad patch.
Biography: So what makes someone suddenly realize she has the condition?
Downs: When something hits us—a relationship falls apart, we lose our job—and it throws us into depression. That’s often the wake-up call.
An effective tool
Biography: In your book, you recommend five weeks of journal writing as a way of lifting chronic discontent. Why?
Downs: Journaling has a hidden power that we don’t realize until we do it. Sometimes what you feel doesn’t hit you until you see your thoughts on paper. Think of journaling as a backdoor approach to becoming more familiar with feelings you haven’t allowed yourself to express.
Biography: How does someone get started?
Downs: List the relationships that mean the most to you. Then focus on one relationship a day in your journal. Write what you really feel about that person, looking for a balance between the positive and negative. If you can’t find it, you need to write why that is.
Vocabulary Focus
brink (n) [briNk] the point where a new or different situation is about to begin; the edge
wake-up call (idiom) something that makes one realize he or she needs to take action to change a situation
backdoor (adj) [7bAk5dR:(r)] relating to something that comes from an indirect, sometimes secret approach
Specialized6 Terms
double whammy (n phr) 祸不单行 a situation when two unpleasant things happen at almost the same time (informal)
当忧郁挥之不去时
2
《传记杂志》的专访
传记:在处理你自己长期烦躁的问题时,最棘手的是哪一个部分?
道恩:了解到自己在生命中许多人际关系上的作为,把我带到崩溃边缘。此外还有身为心理学家理当知道更多的责任感,简直是雪上加霜。
症状
传记:有哪些症状是我们注意得到的?
道恩:有一个症状是持续的沮丧感,还有感觉无助,对事情缺乏行动力与
热情。
传记:一般人都不时感觉烦躁,抱怨工作,想要买新房子或新车。你怎么知道如何辨别这跟“长期烦躁”的差别?
道恩:“长期烦躁”是一种会持续不断的趋向。不管时间的长短,任何事物都无法让你开心。这跟每个人都会遇到的经历几天不愉快的日子是不同的。有“长期烦躁”的人永远无法从阴霾中走出来。
传记:那么,什么使有“长期烦躁”的人突然发现自己的问题?
道恩:当我们遭受严重打击,像失恋,或失去工作,而重重地跌入忧郁之中时。通常那就是警讯。
有效的工具
传记:你在书中建议,写5周的日记有助于从长期烦躁中解脱。为什么?
道恩:写日记有一股隐藏的力量,不实际去做是无法领悟的。有时候你的一些感受并不会影响你,除非你看到它被白纸黑字地写在纸上。
传记:该怎么开始呢?
道恩:列出对你来说意义深远的几段关系。在日记中,每天只将注意力放在其中的一段关系上,写下你对那个人的真正感觉,然后在正面与负面的感觉中找到平衡点。如果找不到的话,就必须写下原因。
1 blues | |
n.抑郁,沮丧;布鲁斯音乐 | |
参考例句: |
|
|
2 chronic | |
adj.(疾病)长期未愈的,慢性的;极坏的 | |
参考例句: |
|
|
3 brink | |
n.(悬崖、河流等的)边缘,边沿 | |
参考例句: |
|
|
4 irritable | |
adj.急躁的;过敏的;易怒的 | |
参考例句: |
|
|
5 ongoing | |
adj.进行中的,前进的 | |
参考例句: |
|
|
6 specialized | |
adj.专门的,专业化的 | |
参考例句: |
|
|