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英语沙龙:How the Americans View Friendship

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How the Americans View Friendship


   Steve and Yaser first met in their chemistry class at an American university.Yaser was an international student from Jordon.He wanted to learn more about American culture and hoped that he and Steve would become good friends.At first,Steve seemed very friendly.He always greeted Yaser warmly before class.Sometimes he offered to study with Yaser.He even invited Yaser to eat lunch with him.But after the semester1) was over,Steve seemed more distant.The two former classmates didn't see each other very much at school.One day Yaser decided1 to call Steve.Steve didn't seem very interested in talking to him.Yaser was hurt by Steve's change of attitude.“Steve said we were friends,”Yaser complained,“and I thought friends were friends for ever.”Yaser is a little confused2.As foreigner,he doesn't understand the way American view friendship.Americans use the word “friend” in a very general way.They may call both casual3 acquaintances2) and close companions “friends.” These friendships are based on common interests.When the shared activity ends,the friendship may fade3).Now as Steve and Yaser are no longer classmates,their “friendship” has changed.In some cultures friendship means4 a strong life-long bond5 between two people.In these cultures friendships develop slowly,since they are built to last.American society is one of rapid change.Studies show that one out of five American families moves every year.American friendships develop quickly,and they may change just as quickly.People from the United6 States may at first seem friendly.Americans often chat easily with strangers.But American friendliness7 is not always an offer of true friendship.After an experience like Yaser's people who've been in this country for only a few months may consider Americans to be fickle8Learning9 how Americans view friendship can help non-Americans avoid misunderstandings.It can also help them make friends the American way.

美国人的友谊观


史蒂夫和亚瑟第一次见面是在美国一所大学的化学课上。亚瑟是来自约旦的外国留学生。他想更多地了解美国文化,并希望能和史蒂夫成为好友。起初,史蒂夫显得很友好。上课前他总是热情地与亚瑟打招呼。有时他主动提出与亚瑟一起学习,甚至还邀请亚瑟共进午餐。但学期结束后,史蒂夫显得比较冷淡了。这两位先前的同班同学在学校不再经常见面。有一天,亚瑟决定给史蒂夫打个电话,可史蒂夫对与其交谈似乎不太感兴趣。史蒂夫态度的改变让亚瑟感到受了伤害。“史蒂夫说过我们是好朋友,”亚瑟抱怨说,“我本来以为是朋友就永远是朋友。”亚瑟有些不解。作为一个外国人,他不理解美国人对友谊的看法。美国人对“朋友”一词的使用非常广泛。他们可能把一般的熟人和亲密的伙伴都称之为“朋友”。这些友谊都是基于共同的兴趣。当这些原来共同从事的活动不复存在时,友谊也可能随之淡化。现在亚瑟和史蒂夫不再是同学,所以他们的“友谊”已经发生了变化。在有些文化中,友谊意味着维系两个人的牢固的持续终生的纽带。在这些文化中,友谊发展得很慢,因为人们是在建立持续终生的感情。而美国社会是个快速变化的社会。有研究显示,每年每五个美国家庭中就有一家迁移。美国人的友谊建立得非常快,其变化也同样快。从美国来的人给人的第一印象是很友好。美国人常随意与陌生人交谈。然而美国人的友好并不总是真正友情的表示。来到美国才几个月的外国人在经历了一次如同亚瑟这样的经历之后,可能会认为美国人易变。了解美国人对友谊的看法,有助于非美国人避免误解,还可以帮助他们学会以美国方式与美国人交朋友。
 


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1 decided lvqzZd     
adj.决定了的,坚决的;明显的,明确的
参考例句:
  • This gave them a decided advantage over their opponents.这使他们比对手具有明显的优势。
  • There is a decided difference between British and Chinese way of greeting.英国人和中国人打招呼的方式有很明显的区别。
2 confused Yp1z8     
adj.困惑的,烦恼的
参考例句:
  • They asked so many questions that they confused me.他们问了许多问题,都把我弄糊涂了。
  • A wise man is never confused.智者不惑。
3 casual QnMyh     
adj.漠不关心,冷漠的;随便的,非正式的;偶然的,碰巧的
参考例句:
  • He earns a living by casual labour.他靠做临时工为生。
  • The guests wore casual clothes.客人们穿着便服。
4 means 9oXzBX     
n.方法,手段,折中点,物质财富
参考例句:
  • That man used artful means to find out secrets.那人使用狡猾的手段获取机密。
  • We must get it done by some means or other.我们总得想办法把它干完。
5 bond utOzP     
n.结合,债券,契约,粘合剂,保证人,键,关栈保留;vt.存入关栈,粘着;vi.结合
参考例句:
  • This glue makes a good firm bond.这种胶水粘得很结实。
  • His word is his bond.他是讲信用的。
6 united Yfmz2c     
adj.和谐的;团结的;联合的,统一的
参考例句:
  • The whole nation is closely united.全国人民紧密团结。
  • The two men were united by community of interests.共同的利益使两个人结合在一起。
7 friendliness nsHz8c     
n.友谊,亲切,亲密
参考例句:
  • Behind the mask of friendliness,I know he really dislikes me.在友善的面具后面,我知道他其实并不喜欢我。
  • His manner was a blend of friendliness and respect.他的态度友善且毕恭毕敬。
8 fickle Lg9zn     
adj.(爱情或友谊上)易变的,不坚定的
参考例句:
  • Fluctuating prices usually base on a fickle public's demand.物价的波动往往是由于群众需求的不稳定而引起的。
  • The weather is so fickle in summer.夏日的天气如此多变。
9 learning wpSzFe     
n.学问,学识,学习;动词learn的现在分词
参考例句:
  • When you are learning to ride a bicycle,you often fall off.初学骑自行车时,常会从车上掉下来。
  • Learning languages isn't just a matter of remembering words.学习语言不仅仅是记些单词的事。
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