英语悠选脱口秀 第139期:10个信号决定他就是你等的人(下)

 讲解

上期节目中我们谈了前五个标志，今天来看看后面五个都是什么吧

6. You think long-term¹ about the future.

Are you dating them as a back up when you are still waiting for the right one, or are you already excited about being forever together with them?如果遇到那个想要厮守的人，你会不自觉的设想你们的未来吧。

7. You become a better version² of yourself

两个人在一起，应该会让彼此成为更好，更阳光的存在。

When the right person comes along, they will make you shine brighter, not snuff（扑灭） out your flame.

8. You are still attracted to their body, mind, and spirit.

两个人在一起，除了外表互相吸引外，精神上也要互相认同。

A healthy relationship will make you be interested in all aspects of your partner.

When you are with the right person, you will like them as much or even more than you did when the two of you started dating.

9. You can talk with them.

I mean really talk.

You can share your opinions, your likes and dislikes, you can speak freely³ about what's in your mind, and you can have deep conversations.

当你跟他聊天的时候会有可以敞开心扉的安全感。不用担心，我这样他会不会讨厌我

Communication is the key to a healthy relationship.

10. You encourage each other to spend more time with family and friends.

The right person will take you home to meet their parents or family members. 

And ask you to hang out with their friends.

两个人在一起，生活轨迹自然会有很多重叠。

Their family and friends become your family and friends.

You're not hiding each other from everyone else, and your partner also wants to see you hanging out with your friends.

They allow you to still live your life.

这10个标志虽然不能完全定义两个人的关系，但希望对大家的生活有帮助吧。

Have a nice day, everyone!

Talk to you next time!

1 long-term   

adj.长远的，长期的

参考例句：

• It isn't a long-term policy.这不是长久之计。
• We must calculate on a long-term basis.我们要作长期打算。

2 version   

n.版本；型号；叙述，说法

参考例句：

• His version of the events is pure supposition.他对这件事的说法纯属猜测。
• What is your version of this matter?你对这件事情的看法 怎么样？

3 freely   

adv.自由地，随便地，无拘无束地

参考例句：

• She was unable to keep back her tears,and wept freely.她抑制不住泪水，痛痛快快地哭了起来。
• A liquid flows freely and has no fixed shape.液体能自由流动，无固定形态。