解决矛盾的口语

     人和人一起相处，难免会产生各种误会，就算是家人之间、朋友之间、情侣之间也会因为一些小小的言语冲突而闹出矛盾。这时我们该做的不是埋怨、恼火，而是以妥善的方式同对方解释清楚。那么我们要如何用英语来解释事情呢？今天就来学几句实用的英语句子吧！

    1. I had meant to say that...

    我之前想说的是……2. Please give me a chance to explain...

    请给我机会让我解释一下……3. What I really wanted to tell you was that...

    我真正希望告诉你的是……4. I just want to make one point clear...

    我只想把这一点解释清楚。

    5. I want to clarify¹ a point I had made...

    我希望就我之前所说的那点做一下澄清。

    6. Perhaps, I wasn’t too clear about what I had meant. Let me try and clear this up a bit.

    可能我没讲清楚我想说的内容，请让我试着更好地解释一下吧。

    7. You have misunderstood me. I hadn’t meant for it to sound that way. Let me explain.

    你误会我了。我没想到这句话会被这么误解，请让我解释一下。

    8. Please allow me to explain this better. I don’t want any misunderstandings.

    请允许我再做一下解释，我不希望有任何的误会。

    9. Please don’t doubt my intentions², as I only want what’s best for the both of us.

    请不要怀疑我的动机，我是希望我们俩都好。

    10. Perhaps we can then put this whole misunderstanding behind us?

    我们是否能够把误会忘掉，重新开始呢？

1 clarify   

v.澄清，阐明，使变得清晰；净化

参考例句：

• I am happy to clarify any points that are still unclear.我愿意说明任何仍然不清楚的地方。
• Can you clarify this long sentence?你能把这个长句子解释清楚吗？

2 intentions   

n.意图( intention的名词复数 )；意向；目的；打算

参考例句：

• I completely misunderstood her intentions. 我完全误会了她的意图。
• He's been upfront about his intentions since the beginning. 他从一开始就明白说出了他的意图。