怎样成为一个更有魅力的男人？

 What are some life hacks¹ for a guy to look more handsome/attractive?

有什么生活技巧能让一个男人看上去更帅气/迷人？

获得3.8k好评的答案@James L Moyer

1) Clothes that fit. A few of us are gifted with dimensions that allow us to purchase straight off the rack. But most men (myself included) absolutely need to have custom-fitted clothing. Do this. Cut the number of clothes you buy in half. And double what you spend on each item. You will look great and feel great when your clothes fit perfectly².

1）合身的衣服。我们中的少数人是天生衣架子，能够直接买现成的衣服，但是大部分人（包括我自己）十分需要穿量身定做的衣服。这样做吧，把你要买的衣服数量减半，然后每件衣服花双倍的价格。当你穿着超级合身的衣服时，你看起来会很棒，自己感觉也很棒。

2) Assume everyone likes you. Take the lead when meeting people. Pretend you are a host or that you have the responsibility to help others enjoy themselves in a conversation. Most people are awkward³ or nervous in social situations, so if you take the pressure off of them, they'll love you for it and see you as more attractive.

2）假定每个人都喜欢你。在和别人聚会的时候占据主动，假装你是主人或是你有责任帮助他人在谈话中觉得尽兴。大部分人在社交场合会笨手笨脚或是紧张，所以如果你让他们减轻压力，他们就会因此喜欢你，觉得你很迷人。

3) Find a friend who always looks sharp. Ask them for tips for you.

3）去找看起来总是很时髦的朋友，向他们讨教技巧。

4) Believe you are handsome. Confidence is attractive.

4）相信自己很吸引人，有自信就是吸引人。

Good luck!

祝你好运！

获得455好评的答案@Cynth Chan

1. Carry your prop⁴

1、带上你的道具。

Book! Nothing beats a guy with a book. I really really really really like seeing a guy with a book resting near him. *Bonus point* - if he's actually reading it.

书！拿着书的男人天下无敌。我非常非常非常非常喜欢看一个男人身边搁着一本书的样子。加分点——如果他确实在看这本书的话。

Pet. I like seeing a guy who treats his pet well. They seem more attractive and make people assume they will actually be a good father someday.

宠物。我喜欢看一个男人温柔对待他家宠物的样子。他们看起来更有魅力而且让大家认为他们将来一定会成为一个好爸爸。

Scarf, sunglasses, beanie, coffee or anything that you think suits you best.

围巾、墨镜、帽子、咖啡或任何你觉得最适合你的东西。

2. Cleanliness is next to Godliness - Little things matter.

2、清洁近乎神圣——小细节是关键。

Trim your nails or at least keep them clean and tidy.

修剪你的指甲，或者，至少保持干净整洁。

Teeth, this is so important. I secretly judge people's teeth when they talk. It's always nice to know when someone takes good care of their teeth. It gives an impression that they actually take care of themselves.

牙齿，这太重要了。当别人说话的时候我会悄悄地评判他们的牙齿。当我知道这个人用心护理牙齿时，我会感觉很不错，这也给人以一种印象，他们实际上也很用心照顾自己。

3. Learn how to cook?.

3、学会煮饭。

You don't have to cook like Gordon Ramsay or any Michelin chefs and we don't expect you to be like them either but it would be really great if you know how to cook something simple.

你不需要像戈登·拉姆齐（英国顶级厨师）或米其林大厨那样，我们也不指望你像他们一样，但是如果你知道怎么煮一些简单的菜式，那就真的很棒了。

A study was carried out and revealed that women find men most sexy when they are working in the kitchen, NOT when carrying 'manly⁵' tasks.

有项研究表明女人觉得男人在厨房工作的时候最性感，而不是在做一些“有男人味”的事情的时候。

1 hacks   

黑客

参考例句：

• But there are hacks who take advantage of people like Teddy. 但有些无赖会占类似泰迪的人的便宜。 来自电影对白
• I want those two hacks back here, right now. 我要那两个雇工回到这儿，现在就回。 来自互联网

2 perfectly   

adv.完美地，无可非议地，彻底地

参考例句：

• The witnesses were each perfectly certain of what they said.证人们个个对自己所说的话十分肯定。
• Everything that we're doing is all perfectly above board.我们做的每件事情都是光明正大的。

3 awkward   

adj.笨拙的，尴尬的，使用不便的，难处理的

参考例句：

• John is so shy and awkward that everyone notices him.约翰如此害羞狼狈，以至于大家都注意到了他。
• I was the only man among the guests and felt rather awkward.作为客人中的唯一男性，我有些窘迫。

4 prop   

vt.支撑；n.支柱，支撑物；支持者，靠山

参考例句：

• A worker put a prop against the wall of the tunnel to keep it from falling.一名工人用东西支撑住隧道壁好使它不会倒塌。
• The government does not intend to prop up declining industries.政府无意扶持不景气的企业。

5 manly   

adj.有男子气概的；adv.男子般地，果断地

参考例句：

• The boy walked with a confident manly stride.这男孩以自信的男人步伐行走。
• He set himself manly tasks and expected others to follow his example.他给自己定下了男子汉的任务，并希望别人效之。