豆知识 2010-07-04&07-10 如何面对恋人的欺骗(在线收听

 Hi, I'm Donna Barnes. I'm a life and dating coach and owner of NY Dating Coach here in New York City. 

 
 
In this clip, we'll talk about what do you do if your boyfriend cheats on you. Well, there's a whole broad spectrum of answers, depending on how he's behaving afterwards. If it was a one-time thing and he's told you about it and he genuinely seems sorry, then you need to decide if you can forgive him because if you can't forgive him, then you really do need to end the relationship. You can't beat him up constantly. You can't punish him because he did this. 
 
 
If he's the kind of guy that seems like he's gonna do it again or he doesn't genuinely seem sorry or he's blaming you for why he cheated, then you need to get out of that relationship. You want to be in a relationship with a man who values you completely, and trust is really important to a relationship. So if you don't feel like you can trust him, you feel like he's gonna do it again, trust me, there's somebody much better for you out there. You'd be better off finding someone else than trying to save this disastrous relationship
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