In this clip we'll talk about the five biggest red flags with dating. 

 

 

 

Number one is if he's controlling or she's controlling, they don't give you an opinion, they don't, they've got to have control of every situation, huge red flag. 

 

 

 

Second red flag is they talk about their ex. Don't talk about your exs on relationship. This is about you and them, it has nothing to do with anybody else, leave them out of the picture. If they're talking too much about their ex, it means they're probably not over them yet, and, you know, or they could be, if they're being nasty about them, that's not a good thing either. 

 

 

 

The next red flag is if they're negative. Everything they say is a complaint, this person is lousy, they're complaining about everything, negative people are not too good. 

 

 

 

If they want to move the relationship too fast, that's a red flag, there should be a slow pace to a relationship. If they want to pull you into everything that they're doing at the most, you know, they're probably codependent, it's not a good sign if they're moving too fast. 

 

 

 

And secondly is if they don't listen to you when you talk. If they're not remembering things you say, if they're constantly interrupting you, that's a huge red flag. 

 

 

 

I'm Donna Barnes, life and dating coach in New York City.