No.1 Learn the language

第一招：好好学韩语

First thing that you have to do is to call their attention and you do this by saying “oppa”(old brother), never ever call them “ahjussi”(mister/sir), or “samchon”(uncle). Do not do that.

想要俘获韩国男人，第一件事就是要引起他们的注意。你可以这样叫他们“哥哥”，千万不要叫他们“大叔”或者“叔叔”。

Also you have some basic phrases you have to learn are:

以下这些常用语也要学会哦：

I miss you!

想你了！

Have eaten yet?

吃饭了吗？

Can you kiss me?

亲亲！

Do you like me?

你喜欢我吗？

No.2 practice the “Aegyo”

第二招：韩国式撒娇

So what is aegyo? Basically it translates to winsomeness. You have to be cute and lovable sounds like girl’s generation.

简单说来，韩国式撒娇就是装嫩，扮可爱，模仿韩国女子组合“少女时代”那样装可爱就可以了。下面是真人对比演绎，撒娇和不撒娇的巨大差别。

This is how you say “oppa ” without aegyo, and with aegyo.

喊“哥哥”的两种版本

This is how you get to ask them buy you a ticket for SM Town without aegyo, and with aegyo.

让他给你买演唱会门票的不同方式

This is how you ask them if they wanna die without aegyo and with aegyo.

“你想死吗？”的两种演绎

No.3 Do the “mildang”

第三招：若即若离，保持距离

Basically, mildang is playing how to get, another words, (don’t be overly enthusiastic!) because Korean guys don’t like that. They like the thrill. They like the tug of war.

保持距离就是不要过分热情！韩国男人喜欢恋爱中的刺激，不要轻易答应他们的要求，要你退我进，我进你退，若即若离，保持距离。

For example, the Korean guys will call you and ask you out for a date.

下面就是真人演绎，当韩国男人向你提出约会时，你该如何“若即若离，保持距离”。

Two days from now, are concert, super junior, super junior concert, you want to come with me?

再过两天，有super junior的演唱会，你要跟我一起去看嘛？

I’m so sorry, who’s the super junior?

不好意思啊，谁是super junior？

Super junior, very big in Korea, very big in Asia.

super junior啊，就是在韩国很红的组合啊，在亚洲也很红的。

I’m so sorry. I really can’t. I don’t know who they are so I don’t think I’ll get interest in their concert. Maybe some when then, thank you so much. (I wanna want to super junior concert! Oppa, I love you! I wanna see you!)

我真的不能去啊，我都不知道他们是谁。下次吧，谢谢你哦！（画外音：姐想去看super junior的演唱会想到死啊！）

Since you don’t know super junior. You don’t wanna come with me?

你不认识他们，那么你也不想和我一起出去吗？

I’m not so sure. I don’t really know so much. I’ll check my schedule, maybe I can go, wait a minute, check my schedule. It’s Saturday ,right? Ok, I think I can go, I think I can be there.

我也不知道啊，我还是看一下我的行程表吧，也许我可以去哦。周六，对吧？恩，好的，我有时间。到时候见了！

And that’s the mildang.

这种半推半就的方式就是“若即若离，保持距离”了。

No.4 Know the Korean Fashion

第四招：掌握韩国的时尚潮流

You only need to know one tip: you’ve got to show your leg, but keep your top cover.

你只需要知道一条流行密码就好，那就是上半身穿得越良家妇女越好，下身穿得越性感越好，使劲露大腿吧！

No.5 Accept that Korea is “the best”

第五招：韩国的，最好的

They have the best electronic company, Samsung, car company, Kia, beef, skater, football player, wave, subway, internet connection, and of course, military service.

吹捧韩国的东西是世界上最好的：世界最好的电子产业是三星电子，世界最好的汽车是起亚，世界最棒的花样滑冰选手是金妍儿，世界最佳的足球运动员是朴智星，世界最流行的是韩流，世界最好的地铁、互联网还有军队都在韩国，总之，韩国的，最好的。

No.6 Do not look for a Korean boyfriend

第六招：千万别自己去找韩国男人

And of course, the last but the most important tip for everyone is actually “not look for Korean boyfriend”. Do not look for love, let love find you. And of course, girls, you have to know your worth and your value. You have to know yourself first before you get a relationship with anyone, not just for Koreans, but anyone. And if you once have a Korean boyfriend, it’s gonna happen. Trust us!

千万别自己去找韩国男人哦。在和男人交往前，女孩子要认识到自己的价值。一旦你的价值得到认可，很快就会有男人自动找上门来。