Worrying Only Gives You Wrinkles（皱纹）
Do you remember as a child being afraid of the bulky （体积大的，容量大的）man or monsters（怪物妖怪） at night?But now that you’re an adult（成人） you know better than to be afraid of things that don’t exist,right?It’s amazing how we adults still have fears in worrys about things that are not real.Like the man who said,don’t tell me worrying doesn’t help. Almost all the things I worry about never happen to me. The crazy thing is that worry in fear makes you run from something that isn’t even chasing（雕刻工作） you,besides worrying only gives you wrinkles,which is just something to worry about.England’s prime minister（首相，总理） Winston Churchill, said that whenever he started to worry,he would remember the man on his who said I had a lot of trouble in my life and most of it never happened.You see it’s not work that kills people,it’s worry.When you fear the future you’re wasting the present.Besides today has enough trouble of its own,so at night,give your worrys to god.He’s up all night anyway.Worrying is kind of like a rockingchair（摇椅） .It keep you going ,but you don’t keep it anywhere.And if you can’t help worrying,remember that worrying can’t help you either.Fear will often find proof （证据，试验）for itself.If you’re fearful,you’ll find something to be fearful about.That’s why the American president Franklin D. Roosevelt said the only thing we have to fear is fear itself.Many of us are afraid of what others think,but if we know how suddenly（突然地） actually they think about us, we know not to worry.So whatever you’r afraid of or worry about,ask yourself,is it real?And if it is real,how will worrting about it will help you?How long will it last?Is there something you can change?If not,how can you best accept it?Then finally ask yourself, how important will this be a year for now,will it be important to me at the end of my life? Just think a minute. |