It is generally accepted that the founction for emotional intelligence is built in early childhood and emotional intelligence can be taught and developed.Therefore,no matter what one's innate ability,he can learn skills such as no big difference between men and women on total EQ but usually men tend to be better as stress tolerance and women tend to be better at empathy and interpersonal relationship.

　　Intellectual intelligence offers virtually no preparation for the problems one can face in the middle of his life.Even though people already know that a high IQ is no guarantee of success,they get used to paying more attention to intellectual intelligence not emotional intelligence.Having a high IQ that is having good memory,does not necessarily mean the person is capable of dealing with emotions.There are people who lack the social skills associated with high emotional intelligence even though thay are very intelligent.IQ is just the indicators of school achievement and educational success.

　　Low emotional intelligence,however can affect intellectual capabilities.For example,depression exerts influence on one's memory and concentration.Psychological tests have proven that feelings of rejection can dramatically reduce alone does not mean that a person will reach his potential.

　　Moderate to substantial genetic influence on IQ has also been found through many studies and it is widely recognized that not all individuals are endowed with the dame intelligence,but it should not be ignored that genes interact with the environment.Social factors will surely add to intelligence.One's success is often decided by three factors-experience and training,IQ,and EQ-among which IQ is the least important factor and EQ plays a major role.Especially leadership success is found to be attributable to emotional intelligence.Fortunately while IQ is fixes and static,Eq can be developed and improved throughout life by training ,heightening,and expanding emotional sensitivity and self-awareness.

　　本文中重难点词汇详解：

　　empathy : n. 神入;移情作用;执着

　　例句：And it all starts, not with aggression and dominance, but with empathy andbonding.

　　这一过程首先不是基于“进攻性和统治性”，而是首先基于“移情和感情连接”。

　　interpersonal : adj. 人际的;人与人之间的

　　例句：Since we are social beings, the quality of our lives depends in large measure on ourinterpersonal relationships.

　　由于我们是社会动物，我们的生活质量在很大程度上取决于我们的人际关系。

　　concentration : n. 浓度;集中;浓缩;专心;集合

　　例句：The area has one of the world's greatest concentrations of wildlife.

　　该地区有世界上野生生物最集中的区域之一。

　　Moderate : vt. 节制;减轻

　　adj. 稳健的，温和的;适度的，中等的;有节制的

　　vi. 变缓和，变弱

　　例句：The researchers excluded from the study patients with moderate to severetraumatic brain injury.

　　研究者从研究中剔除了中度到重度创伤性脑损伤病人。

　　be bound to : 必然;一定要

　　例句：Each of the ports on the component will be bound to the appropriate role.

　　组件上的每一个端口都将被绑定到适当的角色。

　　paying more attention to: 更加注意

　　例句：Many are paying more attention to reducing stress in their lives.

　　许多人更加注意减少生活中精神紧张的压力。

　　associated with : 与…有关系;与…相联系

　　例句：Cigarette smoking has been associated with lung cancer.

　　肺癌被认为与吸烟有关。

　　be attributable to : 可归咎于

　　例句：This difference could be attributable to differences in carbohydrate type and (or) fatcontent.

　　这种差别可能归因于糖的类型和(或者)脂肪含量的不同。