Independent独立

 

Independence is an attractive trait to most men, they like women who have their own life.

 

While, it can be nice to receive attention from a girl, someone who's life revolves around her guy will be way too clingy.

 

Guys need attention and care but at the same time they need their space. They are more likely to date a girl who has her own set of friends and hangs out with them.

 

But, at the same time, men like being providers and need a woman to be dependant on them to an extent, to remind them that they are needed.