真正的朋友true friend

 

 

The Ability to Listen

 

乐于倾听

 

"A friend asks,‘Tell me one word which is significant in any kinds of relationship.’ Another friend says, ‘LISTEN!’" – Santosh Kalwar

 

 

When we communicate with other people, we canusually tell whether they're listening to us, or just waiting to speak. Their body language speaks volumes about whether they actually care about what we're saying. If they interrupt us, text to other people while you're talking, change the subject, or turn the conversation back to something about them, then they aren't really paying attention, are they?

 

 

A true friend will focus entirely on you and actually hear what it is you're saying. If you need to just rant away about a shitty situation, they'll shut up and let you vent. If you need advice, they'll listen to what you need, repeat back to you some key points to ensure they go tall the information, and then give you some tips and pointers. Whether you're heartbroken, elated, or just in need of a sympathetic ear, you can be sure that when you're talking, your words are being heard.