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Make sure your words are non-defensive but clearly stated

 

使用非防卫性语言，但一定要表述清楚

 

No one wins when a requestor reads your softly spoken no as a yes or a maybe.

 

Long, detailed explanations are usually read as defensive or confrontational.

 

The answer should be strong and non-emotional. Justsay no clearly, and smile as you say it.