To be independent

 

独立。

 

They don't have unrealistic expectations.

 

没有不切实际的期望

 

Having unrealistic expectations is one of the quickest ways to being an unhappy camper.

 

Fortunately, if you're a strong,independent girl, that's not an issue for you as you have your expectations in check and are realistically optimistic about the future.

 

Strong, independent girls accept and enjoy these brief interludes but never let them truly affect their lives;they keep grounded and realistic, while never dampening down on their dreams and goals.