怎么这么安静？我女朋友刚和我分手了。好糟糕。我记得我第一次分手时，前三个月，我每天都哭，不用太伤心，会好起来的。她也不值得你这么伤心。

 

A: "Why are you so quiet?"

B: "My girlfriend just broke up with me."

A: "You must feel terrible now."

B: "Yeah."

A: "I remember my first break up. It was the worst feeling in the world. I was crying everyday for three months. And slowly, it got better. I know you'll feel better too."

B: "You've been through this too?"

A: "Yeah. I remember it very clearly. The pain makes it easy to remember. I know you're really hurting right now, but you know many people experience break ups."

B: "But it hurts too much."

A: "I know it's painful, but it's only temporary. After the pain goes away, you'll find other girls."

B: "What if I don't want to find another girl?"

A: "You'll change your mind. Look at everyone in the world. They all break up and move on. The faster you understand this, the quicker you will recover."

B: "You're right."

A: "I also know you must still have strong feelings for her, but try to think of all the bad things. You know she didn't treat you that well. Is that the person you want to spend the rest of your life with?"

B: "Yeah. Thanks for the talk."

A: "I'll give you a call later. We should hang out. It's good to be around people."

B: "Ok. I'll talk to you later."