不要借口真爱难求而紧闭心扉。获得爱的最快途径是给予；失去爱的最快办法是握得过紧；维持爱的最好办法是给爱以双翅。

 

不要让生活的脚步过于匆忙以至忘记你过去的足迹和你今后的人生目标。

 

不要忘记人的最大情感需求是希望被欣赏。

 

 

Five balls in life

 

by Brian Dyson

 

Imagine life as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.You name them —work,family,health,friends and spirit and you’re keeping all of these in the air.

 

You will soon understand that work is a rubber ball. If you drop it, it will bounce back .But the other four balls—family,health,friends and spirit are made of glass these ,they will be irrevocably scuffed, marked ,incked ,damaged or even shattered .They will never be the same .You must understand that and strive for balance in your life . 

 

How? 

 

Don’t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. It is because we are different that each of us is special. 

 

Don’t set your goals by what other people deem important. Only you know what is best for you .

 

Don’t take for granted the things closest to heart. Cling to them as you cling to your life, for without them, life is meaningless.

 

Don’t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. By living your life one day at a time, you live ALL the days of your life.

 

Don’t give up when you still have something to give .Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.

 

Don’t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us each together.

 

Don’t be afraid to encounter risks. It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.

 

Don’t shut love out of your life by saying it’s impossible to find . The quickest way to receive love is to give; the faster way to lose love is to hold it too tightly; and the best way to keep love is to give it wings.

 

Don’t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you’ve been, but also where you are going.

 

Don’t forget that a person’s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated.

 

Don’t be afraid to learn . Knowledge is weightless, a treasure you can always carry easily.

 

Don’t use time or words carelessly. Neither can be retrieved. Life is not a race, but a journey to be savored esch step of the way.