Forgive yourself.

 

自我原谅

 

If you're someone who's absurdly harder to no one but yourself, this is going to be a tough challenge. But with time, your eyes will be opened and when you finally see and realize your worth, you'd be totally okay. That's even if the guy you once loved failed to see it.

 

如果你是那种对自己要求出奇地严格的人，这将是一个困难的挑战。但随着时间流逝，你终将会看开，当你最终发掘到自己的价值时，整个人会明朗很多。而这是那个你曾经爱过的人所不曾察觉的。

 

Contact him.

 

联系曾经那个他

 

The chances may be really slim but be sure to exhaust all ways of telling him goodbye (phone, email, social media accounts). Tell him you're done and you're never waiting for him, ever. Don't wait for his reply but rather remove him totally from your life by blocking him and changing your phone number.

 

但是你要利用各种方式跟他说拜拜，无论是电话，邮件还是社交媒体。告诉他你已经放下了他并且再也不会等他回心转意。不要等待他的回复，相反，你还要将他屏蔽或者更换手机号，以此将他从你的生活中彻底抹去。