讨喜法

 

Sincere Compliments and Plentiful Praise.

 

真诚的赞美和各种称赞。

 

As noted again by the famous self-improvement expert Dale Carnegie, individuals crave authentic appreciation.

 

著名的自我提高方面的专家戴尔·卡内基再次表明每个人都渴望真诚的欣赏。

 

This is very different from empty flattery, which most people are adept at detecting.

 

这和空洞的奉承有很大区别，大部分人都容易发觉。

 

No one likes a brown-nose, and most people don't particularly love being pandered to.

 

谁都不喜欢拍马屁，大部分人尤其不喜欢被人迎合。

 

What people really want is sincere appreciation — to be recognized and appreciated for their efforts.

 

人们真正想要的是真诚的欣赏——他们的努力被认可被赞赏。