Do you remember the last time you received an unexpected call, text or email from someone who intentionally said something complimentary to you? 你是否记得上次你接到一个电话，一条短信或者一封电子邮件，故意说有东西要赠送给你？

How did it make you feel?  Did it brighten your mood?  Did it bring a smile to your face?  What impression did this person make on you? 你当时感觉如何？它是否让你的心情开朗？它是不是让你脸上出现了微笑？这个人给你留下了什么样的印象？

When I consider the different types of impressions we make on people, 当我考虑给人们留下了不同的印象时，

there are very few more powerful then when you do something unexpectedly to show people they are important to you. 当我们对一些人做一些意想不到的事来显示他对我们的重要性时，很少人会有更大的力量。

It could be a simple text message telling a friend how much you value the friendship or a short email to a co-worker complimenting him or her on the way he or she handled a difficult situation at the office today. 它可以是一条简单的短信告诉你的朋友你们之间宝贵的友谊，或者是一封电子邮件称赞你的同事他（她）今天在办公室解决问题的方式。

When you take your time to surprise people with acts of kindness or love, you will make them feel noticed, valued, and appreciated. 当你花时间去感受人们的善举或者爱时，你会使他们感觉他们是引人注目的，有价值的，和可欣赏的。

You will bring a smile to their faces and joy to their hearts. It will enhance their self-esteem and strengthen their self-confidence. 你会使他们面带笑容，心里很高兴。这会提高他们的自尊，增强他们的自信。

It will renew their energy and put a bounce in their step. It will draw them closer to you and you to them and create an extraordinary bond in your relationship. 这会使他们能量充沛，使他们跨越一大步。这会使他们接近你并在你们之间创建一个特别的约定。

You will benefit also because there is joy in unselfish acts when you give of yourself, your time, and your resources. 当你奉献你自己，你的时间和你的资源时，你将会受益，那就是无私的欢乐的行为。

Here are 25 unexpected things you can do to show people they are special in your eyes. 这是25件意想不到的你可以做的事来表现他们在你眼里的不同。

1.  Do your children’s chores for the day.I did that today,my daughter wondered if i have fever that she checked my temperature 1.今天做你孩子的杂物。我今天就做了，我女儿以为我发烧了，要给我测体温。

2.  Drop a hand-written card in the mail to give someone an encouraging word. 2.亲手给别人写卡片邮件，并加上鼓励的话。

3.  Give your spouse or significant other a gift on your next date night. 3.在你下次约会的晚上，给你的伴侣或者其他重要的人一件礼物。

4.  Shovel snow for an older couple down the street. 4.年长的夫妇在路上铲雪。

5.  Call a friend going through a difficult period to show your support. 5.在你朋友困难时期给他们打电话，来显示你对他们的支持。

6.  Send a client something special that made you think of him or her. 6.送个客户一些特殊的礼物让他们知道你想着他（她）们。

7.  Send a gift basket or bouquet of flowers to the hotel room of a friend who is on a long road trip. 7.在你长途旅行的朋友的宾馆里，送他一个礼品篮或者一个花束。

8.  Invite a friend to dinner and plan an evening with his/her interest in mind. 8.邀你的一个朋友共进晚餐时，计划一个晚上说他们感兴趣的事。