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The Secrets of Mastering Emotions 控制情绪的秘诀 The tides advance; the tides recede . Winter goes and summer comes. Summer wanes and the cold increases. The sun rises; the sun sets. The moon is full; the moon is black. The birds arrive; the birds depart. Flowers bloom; flowers fade. Seeds are sown; harvests are reaped. All nature is a circle of moods and I am a part of nature and so, like the tides, my moods will rise; my moods will fall. It is one of nature's tricks, little understood, that each day I awaken with moods that have changed from yesterday. Yesterday's joy will become today's sadness; yet today's sadness will grow into tomorrow's joy. Inside me is a wheel, constantly turning from sadness to joy, from exultation to depression, from happiness to melancholy. Like the flowers, today's full bloom of joy will fade and withers into despondency , yet I will remember that as today's dead flower carries the seed of tomorrow's bloom so, too, does today's sadness carry the seed of tomorrow's joy. And how will I master these emotions so that each day will be productive?For unless my mood is right the day will be a failure. Trees and plants depend on the weather to flourish but I make my own weather, yea I transport it with me. And how will I master my emotions so that every day is a happy day, and a productive one? I will learn this secret of the ages:Weak is he who permits his thoughts to control his actions; strong is he who forces his actions to control his thoughts. Each day, when I awaken, I will follow this plan of battle before I am captured by the forces of sadness, self-pity and failure — If I feel depressed I will sing. If I feel sad I will laugh. If I feel ill I will double my labor. If I feel fear I will plunge ahead. If I feel inferior I will wear new garments. If I feel uncertain I will raise my voice. If I feel poverty I will think of wealth to come. If I feel incompetent I will remember past success. If I feel insignificant I will remember my goals. Henceforth, I will know that only those with inferior ability can always be at their best, and I am not inferior. There will be days when I must constantly struggle against forces which would tear me down. Those such as despair and sadness are simple to recognize but there are others which approach with a smile and the hand of friendship and they can also destroy me. Against them, too, I must never relinquish control — If I become overconfident I will recall my failures. If I overindulge I will think of past hungers. If I feel complacency I will remember my competition. If I enjoy moments of greatness I will remember moments of shame. If I feel all-powerful I will try to stop the wind. If I attain great wealth I will remember one unfed mouth. If I become overly proud I will remember a moment of weakness. If I feel my skill is unmatched I will look at the stars. Henceforth I will recognize and identify the mystery of moods in all mankind, and in me. From this moment I am prepared to control whatever personality awakes in me each day. I will master moods through positive action and when I master my moods I will control my destiny. I will become master of myself. I will become great. 潮起潮落,冬去夏来,暑消寒长,日升日落,月圆月缺,雁来雁往,花开花谢,播种 收获。自然万物都在循环变化中,而我,自然之子,和潮汐一样,我的情绪也时落时涨。 这是大自然耍的一个难以理解的戏法:每天我都带着不同于昨天的情绪醒来。昨天的 欢乐变成今天的哀伤,可是今天的哀伤又会变成明天的欢乐。在我的内心有一只巨大的轮 子,不断地从哀伤转向欢乐,从狂喜转向沮丧,从幸福转向忧郁。跟鲜花一样,今天盛开 的欢乐,会凋谢枯萎成为沮丧。可是我将记住,今天枯萎的花朵携带着明天绽放的种子。 所以同样地,今天的哀伤也携带着明天欢乐的种子。 我怎样控制好情绪,让每一天都卓有成效呢?因为除非我的情绪对头,否则当天就会 以失败告终。树木植物靠天气茂盛,我要创造属于自己的天气,甚至我让它随身同行。 我怎样控制好情绪,让每一天都快乐而又有收获呢?我要学会这条千古秘诀:让思想 控制行为是弱者,迫使行为控制思想才是强者。每天我醒来,在我被哀伤、自怜和失败俘 获之前,我将按照这样的作战方案行事—— 感到压抑就放声歌唱。 感到哀伤就畅怀大笑。 感到不适就加倍工作。 感到畏惧就勇往直前。 感到自惭形秽就穿上新衣服。 感到犹豫不决就提高嗓门。 感到贫困就想象财富将至。 感到力不从心就回忆往昔的成功。 感到无足轻重就铭记自己的目标。 从今以后,我将明白,只有能力低下的人才能够一直处于最佳状态,而我,不是能力 低下的人。会有那么些日子,我必须和把我折腾得狼狈不堪的势力不断地斗争。像绝望和 哀伤这些,简单而易识别。可是也有一些带着微笑、向我伸出友谊之手、却要置我于死地 的势力,同它们斗争,我决不能放弃控制情绪—— 骄傲自负时就追寻失败的记忆。 沉湎享乐时就想到挨饿的从前。 沾沾自喜时就想到过去的竞争。 觉得自己了不得时就想到经受过的耻辱。 自以为是时看看能否让风儿止步。 腰缠万贯时想想饥寒之人。 骄傲自满时就想想自己曾经的软弱。 不可一世时抬起头仰望浩瀚的星空。 从今以后,我将认识到整个人类包括自己情绪的奥秘。从现在起,我做好了准备,每 天无论自己有什么个性的情感出现,都加以控制。我将用积极行动主宰情绪,当我控制了 自己的情绪,我就掌握了自己的命运。我会成为自己的主人,成就大事。 |
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