如何成为爱情中的智者

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Look Out for No.2There is a powerful healing energy that emanates¹ from loving.Lasting² love can learn to sense it,send it and make it grow. We are energized³ by love if we put our energy into loving.

Bad energy springs from conflicts that arise when two egos⁴ collide. When I watch husbands and wives argue with each other, I want to shout:"Grow up,stop fighting,start loving!"It is bettter to learn how to love than how to fight. Dont't try to win in your marriage, win for your marriage.

Marriage is designed primarily for giving rather than taking, It is meant to be a permanent union of two unselfish people. As one husband told me,"The old saying was "Look out for Number one",But we 've learned to "Look out for Number two."If you fight for yourself,only you can win. When you fight for your marriage, you both win.

 

1 emanates   

v.从…处传出，传出( emanate的第三人称单数 )；产生，表现，显示

参考例句：

• He emanates power and confidence. 他表现出力量和信心。
• He emanates sympathy. 他流露出同情。 来自辞典例句

2 lasting   

adj.永久的，永恒的；vbl.持续，维持

参考例句：

• The lasting war debased the value of the dollar.持久的战争使美元贬值。
• We hope for a lasting settlement of all these troubles.我们希望这些纠纷能获得永久的解决。

3 energized   

v.给予…精力，能量( energize的过去式和过去分词 )；使通电

参考例句：

• We are energized by love if we put our energy into loving. 如果我们付出能量去表现爱意，爱就会使我们充满活力。 来自辞典例句
• I am completely energized and feeling terrific. 我充满了活力，感觉非常好。 来自辞典例句

4 egos   

自我，自尊，自负( ego的名词复数 )

参考例句：

• Their egos are so easily bruised. 他们的自尊心很容易受到伤害。
• The belief in it issues from the puerile egos of inferior men. 这种信仰是下等人幼稚的自私意识中产生的。