THIS IS AMERICA - Dating

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THIS IS AMERICA -February 4, 2002: Dating

By Jerilyn Watson
VOICE ONE:

The United¹ States has millions of unmarried² adults. Many would like go out socially and have fun with someone
they like. I’m Sarah Long.
VOICE TWO:
And I’m Steve Ember. The story of how people meet and date is our report today on the VOA Special English

program, THIS IS AMERICA.
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VOICE ONE:
Thursday, February Fourteenth, is Valentine’s Day. On that day, many people buy cards or flowers for those

who are important in their lives. Valentine’s Day gives lovers³ a chance to express their feelings.

However, millions of people in the United States are alone. They are not married or
involved in a close relationship. Some of these people wish they could find someone to
date. They wish they could celebrate Valentine’s Day with a special person.

VOICE TWO:

There are a number of ways to find someone to date. Some people meet at work. Others
meet by chance in a public place. Still others visit places where other single people go. Or
they can use businesses that help organize dates. Many men and women find dates through
services they find on their personal computers.

The purpose of dating is to have fun. Sometimes people who date develop a close relationship. Some people
decide to live together, yet remain unmarried. Others decide to get married.

In the past, young people in America usually lived with their parents until they got married. Today, some still do.
Yet most young people live a more independent life. They have a job. They travel. They rent or own their own
apartment or house. They wait longer to get married. While waiting, they date.

VOICE ONE:

Often a friend will plan a meeting between two unmarried people who do not know each other. This is called a
“blind date.
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The people involved are not blind. They just have never seen each other.

However, most unmarried people have to find their own dates. Many go to public eating, drinking or dancing
places. Every city in America has them. Some places are popular with young people. Others are for older people.

Many Americans, however, want to go where they are sure they can meet people with similar interests. For
example, they may go to a bookstore. Some bookstores in America now serve coffee and food. Many offer
special programs and social activities for single people. Other singles join health clubs to exercise and to meet
people. Or, they may join groups for people who like to take long walks or watch birds.

VOICE TWO:

Some public eating and drinking places help plan dates for single people. At several such places in New York
City, people can write answers to a series⁴ of questions. Then other people read the answers. If someone likes the
answers, an employee⁵ sets up a date. This service costs a small amount of money.


A restaurant called Drip⁶ started using this system when it opened in Nineteen-Ninety-Six. Since then, the Drip
café has helped many people find someone to date. It was the first restaurant and date-organizing place in a group
called DateCafes. Today more DateCafes have opened in New York and in Boston, Massachusetts.

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VOICE ONE:

Some companies help single people meet other people. For example, Great Expectations has been organizing
dates for about twenty-five years. It started in San Francisco, California⁷. The company sends millions of letters a
year to people throughout⁸ the country. The letters explain how the system works⁹.

A company called Brief Encounters¹⁰ serves single people in Washington¹¹, D -C, and Baltimore, Maryland. Its
meetings provide quick introductions¹² for ten to twelve young and aged¹⁴" target="_blank">middle-aged¹³ people. At these events, people
meet members of the opposite sex for only a few minutes. A man and a woman sit at a table across from each
other. They talk for six minutes until a bell rings. Then everyone meets a new person.

People write their reactions on paper. They note whom they like. Then they give these notes to a Brief
Encounters employee. Within twenty-four hours people seeking dates receive the names and telephone numbers
of those who also liked them.

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The group SpeedDating also provides fast introductions. It is one of a number of dating services organized by
religious¹⁵ organizations. Jewish¹⁶ men and women aged twenty-five to thirty -five meet for fewer than ten minutes.
Then they meet and talk to other people. An international Jewish education center started these groups. They
began in Los Angeles, California. The service now has spread to many American cities and to other countries.

Some people seeking dates do not like making hurried choices. But others praise this method. A young woman in
Chicago, Illinois says it prevents spending long hours with someone who is not very interesting.

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VOICE ONE:

Many American newspapers and magazines publish messages from people seeking someone to date. The
messages are called “personal want ads”
or simply “personals.
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This is the usual kind of message in a
personal ad: “Nice looking woman, forty years old, thin, athletic¹⁷, successful, great cook, desires long -term
relationship.
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Men who want to meet this woman write to the newspaper or magazine. They describe themselves and their
interests. The woman reads the letters. Then she decides if she wants to meet any of the men.

VOICE TWO:

There also are telephone dating services in many cities. A person calls a telephone dating service and leaves a
message on a recording¹⁸ machine. For example, a man describes himself and the kind of woman he hopes to meet.
He describes what kind of relationship he would like.

Other people call and listen to the messages. If they hear one they like, they leave their own message. If two
people enjoy these telephone messages, they can make plans to meet. Some telephone services let people speak
directly¹⁹ to others they might want to date.

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VOICE ONE:

Millions of Americans seek someone to date through services they find through their personal computers. People
start by communicating with strangers. Sometimes the strangers become friends. They might decide to meet.
Then they might decide to date. They may even decide to get married.


A business called Match-dot-Com is a leader in organizing dates through the World Wide Web²⁰. It has more than
two-and-one-half-million members.

Members can get lists of people their age who live nearby. Some people identify themselves, while others do not.
Many send pictures electronically²². The goal is for people to get to know each other through electronic²¹ mail. Then,
they can decide to meet and date. Match-dot-com says its listings have led to more than one-thousand-fourhundred
weddings. Many other members have formed close relationships.

However, many people believe there is the possibility of danger in any situation when strangers meet. Some
women say they do not want to meet a man through a computer dating service. They are afraid that a man may
not be the kind of person he claims to be.

VOICE TWO:

Some people praise businesses that help organize dates. Others say they wish they could meet people by chance.
No one method of finding²³ someone to date works for everyone. When single people finally get together, what do
they do on a date?

People of all ages like to do many of the same things. They go to restaurants or night clubs. They go to movies,
museums and concerts. They watch sporting events. Sometimes, they decide to spend the rest of their lives
together.

VOICE ONE:

A clothing designer²⁴ in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, was married a few weeks ago. Her new husband is an engineer.
They found each other through their personal computers. They tried this service because neither had much chance
to meet someone at work.

For several years after they finished their university studies, both felt alone. Now these newly²⁵ married people say
that this year, they are truly celebrating Valentine’s Day.

VOICE TWO:

This program was written by Jerilyn Watson. It was produced by George Grow. Our studio²⁶ engineer was Stefan
Anderko. I’m Steve Ember.

VOICE ONE:

And I’m Sarah Long. Join us again next week for another report about life in the United States on the VOA
Special English program, THIS IS AMERICA.

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