豆知识 2009-12-20&12-26 当朋友变为情人之后

（单词翻译）

 In this clip we’ll talk about when friends turn into lovers. It’s one of the greatest things because hopefully your lover is your best friend. But there should be some ground rules. If you’ve come from a part of a friendship, now you’ve become intimately involved. There’s some rule changes. Now you need to stop talking about all other relationships that you’ve had. You might know a lot about each other, but you know, the man that you’re intimately involved with doesn’t want to hear about all the other men that you’ve been interested in in the past. It’s an ego¹ thing, so, and don’t expect to be immediately involved in every little aspect of their life. You know as a friend, you probably know a lot about them, but now that you’ve become intimate, you might want to just be immediately included in all those other things. Give them the space. Don’t get too clingy and change the energy that worked so well with the friendship. Just add the intimacy². It makes it nice.