你所需要做的 是尊重这个事实

　　to understand it, to unearth it

　　去理解它 去挖掘它

　　to listen to this other voice

　　去倾听这个相反的声音

　　All right, I'm losing this now, because

　　我现在要把帽子摘掉

　　otherwise it's coming off in a dramatic fashion at the wrong time否则它肯定会在错误的时候 以很丢脸的方式飞出去I know. I worked on this hair for a long time, so我知道 我头发很久前就这样了

　　I had to bust it out

　　我需要去生发了

　　You have, which is a rare thing

　　你们有一个很特别的东西

　　that ability and the responsibility to listen to the dissent in yourself也就是 倾听自身异议的能力和责任

　　to at least give it the floor, because it is the key至少是让它展现出来 因为这很关键

　　not only to consciousness, but to real growth不仅对意识而言 也对实际生长而言

　　To accept duality is to earn identity

　　接受二元性 才能获得个人身份

　　And identity is something that you are constantly earning个人身份是你们一直在努力获得的事物

　　It is not just who you are

　　它不仅仅是你是谁

　　It is a process that you must be active in这是一个你必须积极参与的过程

　　It's not just parroting your parents or the thoughts of your learned teachers这不仅仅是机械模仿父母或博学的老师的思维方式It is now more than ever about understanding yourself so you can become yourself现在需要更多地理解自己 从而让你成为真正的自己I talk about this contradiction, and this tension我讲了这个矛盾 这个张力

　　there's two things I want to say about it关于这个 我有两点要说的

　　One, it never goes away

　　一是 它永远不会消失

　　And if you think that achieving something, if you think that solving something如果你认为达到什么高度 解决什么问题

　　if you think a career or a relationship will quiet that voice或者拥有什么职业或关系就能平息这个声音

　　it will not

　　那你就错了

　　If you think that happiness means total peace如果你认为幸福就是完全的平静

　　you will never be happy

　　那你将永远无法幸福

　　Peace comes from the acceptance of the part of you that can never be at peace平静来自于对你内心深处永远无法平静这一事实的接受