白领美丽英文诵典365 -079 How to Deal with a Nightmare

1. Find ways to boost your confidence

This is the single most important indicator¹ of success. Asshole bosses typically work to undermine your self-confidence the whole time. Don't allow this to happen. Recite your strengths back to yourself. Keep notes of accomplishments². Celebrate every success.

2. Establish a "territory" and control entry

Make sure you show your job is important. The establishment of a "territory", part physical, part psychological shows others that you see your job as important. Treat it that way yourself and make sure others do so as well.

3. Use informality to let people see your ability

Use informal meetings -- say after work, where people just chat -- to talk casually³ about your ideas and what you've achieved. If they exist, make a point of going. If they don't, start some.

4. Develop your staff

Work as hard as you can at developing your own staff. Be everything to them your boss isn't to you. Nothing gets people noticed faster than capable, loyal staff who tell everyone what a great boss they have.

5. Spread the word subtly

Copy the right people in on your messages, but do it subtly. Don't copy everything to everyone. That will make you look pushy⁴. Just ask yourself who else (other than your boss) has a legitimate⁵ interest -- who else could find what you're saying genuinely helpful

6. Treat others well

Always treat others as you want them to treat you. If you want them to take your achievements seriously, make sure that's what you do. If you want them to see you as someone important, treat yourself that way.

7. Be deserving of success

Be helpful and generous to everyone you meet on your way up. They'll remember you for it and won't try to pull you down once you've reached higher things.

1。寻找途径来提高你的信心

这是一个最重要的成功指标。混蛋老板通常工作，破坏你的自信的全部时间。不要让这种情况发生。念你的优势回到自己。请将成绩笔记。庆祝圆满成功。

2。树立“领土”和控制项

确保你显示你的工作很重要。一个“领土”，部分生理，心理的一部分，你看到别人显示你作为重要的工作机构。这种方式对待自己和他人作出一定也这样做。

3。使用非正式让人们看到你的能力

利用非正式会议 - 工作后说，那里的人只是聊天 - 随便谈谈你的想法和你所取得的成果。如果它们存在，做一个去点。如果他们不这样做，开始一些。

4。发展你的员工

要努力工作，你可以培养自己的员工。他们的一切你的老板是不会给你。没有什么能比让人们注意到，忠诚的员工谁告诉大家什么是伟大的老板，他们有更快。

5。字巧妙地传播

复制在您的邮件正确的人，但要巧妙。不要所有东西复制到每个人。这将让你看起来咄咄逼人。只要问自己还有谁（比你的老板除外）有合法的利益 - 还有谁可以找到你在说什么真正有用

6。善待别人好

对待别人，你总是希望他们对待你。如果你希望他们认真考虑你的成就，确保这就是你做的。如果你想让他们看到的是你重要的你，这样对待自己。

7。是值得成功

有帮助和慷慨，大家你你的方式满足。他们会记住你，它不会试图让你失望的，一旦你已经达到了更高的东西。

1 indicator   

n.指标；指示物，指示者；指示器

参考例句：

• Gold prices are often seen as an indicator of inflation.黃金价格常常被看作是通货膨胀的指标。
• His left-hand indicator is flashing.他左手边的转向灯正在闪亮。

2 accomplishments   

n.造诣；完成( accomplishment的名词复数 )；技能；成绩；成就

参考例句：

• It was one of the President's greatest accomplishments. 那是总统最伟大的成就之一。
• Among her accomplishments were sewing,cooking,playing the piano and dancing. 她的才能包括缝纫、烹调、弹钢琴和跳舞。 来自《现代英汉综合大词典》

3 casually   

adv.漠不关心地，无动于衷地，不负责任地

参考例句：

• She remarked casually that she was changing her job.她当时漫不经心地说要换工作。
• I casually mentioned that I might be interested in working abroad.我不经意地提到我可能会对出国工作感兴趣。

4 pushy   

adj.固执己见的，一意孤行的

参考例句：

• But she insisted and was very pushy.但她一直坚持,而且很急于求成。
• He made himself unpopular by being so pushy.他特别喜欢出风头，所以人缘不好。

5 legitimate   

adj.合法的，合理的，合乎逻辑的；v.使合法

参考例句：

• Sickness is a legitimate reason for asking for leave.生病是请假的一个正当的理由。
• That's a perfectly legitimate fear.怀有这种恐惧完全在情理之中。