伤感情之举-监视他

 Checking up on him监视他

Snooping his Facebook or email account, checking his phone for illicit¹ texts and constantly worrying that his female friends are more than just platonic² will drive you seriously nuts.

You just can't live your life in a state of constant fear that he's hooking up with someone else.

 

If he's cheated on you in the past you need to ask yourself if you truly trust him to be faithful or end things.

 

If you're just insecure talk to him about how you feel and he should be able to reassure³ you. Snooping is not the way to solve this problem.

 

1 illicit   

adj.非法的，禁止的，不正当的

参考例句：

• He had an illicit association with Jane.他和简曾有过不正当关系。
• Seizures of illicit drugs have increased by 30% this year.今年违禁药品的扣押增长了30%。

2 platonic   

adj.精神的；柏拉图（哲学）的

参考例句：

• Their friendship is based on platonic love.他们的友情是基于柏拉图式的爱情。
• Can Platonic love really exist in real life?柏拉图式的爱情，在现实世界里到底可能吗？

3 reassure   

v.使放心，使消除疑虑

参考例句：

• This seemed to reassure him and he continued more confidently.这似乎使他放心一点，于是他更有信心地继续说了下去。
• The airline tried to reassure the customers that the planes were safe.航空公司尽力让乘客相信飞机是安全的。