要不得的坏习惯-担心别人对你的看法

Habits You'd Be Better Off Without

 

你需要戒掉的坏习惯

 

Worrying about what everyone thinks about you

 

担心别人对你的看法

 

This may surprise you to hear, but most of the time no one is thinking about you.

 

Don't take this the wrong way. All I mean to say is that worrying about what others think is ultimately¹ worrying about yourself in a negative light.

 

And guess what? Everyone else is doing the same thing.Most humans are self-involved.

 

Take comfort in this and stop concerning² yourself with the thoughts of others. It'll free up a lot of mental space!

 

1 ultimately   

adv.最后地，最终地，首要地，基本地

参考例句：

• It was a demeaning and ultimately frustrating experience.那是一次有失颜面并且令人沮丧至极的经历。
• Vitamin C deficiency can ultimately lead to scurvy.缺乏维生素C最终能道致坏血病。

2 concerning   

prep.关于，论及

参考例句：

• What do you know concerning this?关于这事你知道些什么？
• Some senior students wrote in asking for information concerning postgraduate studies.一些四年级学生写信询问有关研究生课程的信息。