做个好的倾听者-重复，不要反驳

how to be a good listener

做个好的倾听者

Repeat, Don't Refute¹

 

When someone is telling you their story, they aren't looking for you to interrupt with analysis or suggestions.

 

Hear them out. Repeat back to them what you heard. You can put on your "fix it" hat later.

 

Only if asked!

 

1 refute   

vt.驳斥，反驳，证明

参考例句：

• It was the kind of rumour that it is impossible to refute.这是那种让人根本没法批驳的谣言。
• It goes without saying that we have the right to refute them publicly.不用说我们有权公开驳斥他们。