如何改善人际交流能力-倾听,真正地倾听(10)

How to Improve Your Communication Skills

 

如何改善人际交流能力

 

Listen, Really Listen

 

倾听，真正地倾听

 

Finally, going hand-in-hand with most of the points above, the best thing you can do to improve your communication skills is to learn to really listen—to pay attention and let the other person talk without interrupting.

 

 

It's hard work, we know, but "A good conversation is a bunch of words elegantly¹ connected with listening."

 

 

Then, even if your communication styles don't match, at least you're both working off the same page. And hopefully the other person will be attentively² listening to you too.

 

1 elegantly   

adv.优美地，雅致地，高雅地

参考例句：

• She turned on her elegantly shod heel. 她突然转身，迈开穿着雅致的皮鞋的双脚离去了。
• Susan always dresses very elegantly. 苏珊总是穿得很雅致。 来自《简明英汉词典》

2 attentively   

adv.聚精会神地；周到地；谛；凝神

参考例句：

• She listened attentively while I poured out my problems. 我倾吐心中的烦恼时，她一直在注意听。 来自《简明英汉词典》
• She listened attentively and set down every word he said. 她专心听着，把他说的话一字不漏地记下来。 来自《简明英汉词典》