如何面对失败-我能向谁学习(1)

How we deal with failure?

 

如何面对失败？

 

What can I learn from this?

 

我从失败中学到了什么？

 

Who can I learn from?

 

我能向谁学习？

 

Is there someone to whom you can turn to for advice? Did a boss, colleague or a friend see what happened? If they are constructive¹ and supportive then ask them for some feedback and guidance. Most people do not ask for help because they believe itto be a sign of weakness rather than strength. It's not. It shows that you are ready to learn and change. Any good friend will be happy to help.

 

What will I do next?

 

Now draw up an action plan. Will you try something similar or something different? Revisit your goals and objectives. This reversal has been a setback² on your journey but think of it as a diversion rather than a halt. You can now reset³ your sights on your destination and plan a new course.

 

 

1 constructive   

adj.建设的，建设性的

参考例句：

• We welcome constructive criticism.我们乐意接受有建设性的批评。
• He is beginning to deal with his anger in a constructive way.他开始用建设性的方法处理自己的怒气。

2 setback   

n.退步，挫折，挫败

参考例句：

• Since that time there has never been any setback in his career.从那时起他在事业上一直没有遇到周折。
• She views every minor setback as a disaster.她把每个较小的挫折都看成重大灾难。

3 reset   

v.重新安排，复位；n.重新放置；重放之物

参考例句：

• As soon as you arrive at your destination,step out of the aircraft and reset your wristwatch.你一到达目的地，就走出飞机并重新设置手表时间。
• He is recovering from an operation to reset his arm.他做了一个手臂复位手术，正在恢复。