快乐秘诀-学会分享(3)

Ways to be happy

 

快乐的秘诀

 

How to share.

 

学会分享

 

Share. Not in a Facebook sharing way, but reallyshare.

 

去分享吧。不是指社交网站上的“分享”，是真正的“分享”。

 

How to make friends.

 

学会交友

 

Some people think it's that your friends keep you from doing things that are bad for you. Frankly¹, we think it’s just that theymake your life more fun and worthwhile.

 

有人认为，好朋友能够阻止你做一些对你有害的事情。其实呢，他们只是给你的生活带来了更多的乐趣和价值。

 

How to listen.

 

学会倾听

 

Sure, you probably hear just fine. But do you reallylisten? Do you read body language, facial² expressions, what the eyes aretelling you and not just the mouth?

 

是啊，你也许会说我这不是听得好好的嘛。可你真的有认真在听吗？你有在解读对方的肢体语言、面部表情以及其他眼睛看到的，而不仅是耳朵听到的吗？

 

 

【知识点讲解】

 

keep from 阻止，妨碍

 

例句：

 

Hearing the words, he couldn't keep from laughing.

 

听了这话，他不由得笑了起来。

 

He was argumentative, loud and just plain rude. We bit our tongues the entire weekend to keep from telling him where to go!

 

他好争论，大嗓门并且毫无礼貌。整个周末我们强忍住未向他下逐客令。

1 frankly   

adv.坦白地，直率地；坦率地说

参考例句：

• To speak frankly, I don't like the idea at all.老实说，我一点也不赞成这个主意。
• Frankly speaking, I'm not opposed to reform.坦率地说，我不反对改革。

2 facial   

adj.面部的，脸上的

参考例句：

• I've made an appointment for a facial tomorrow.我约好明天去做美容。
• The chimpanzee uses facial expressions for communication.黑猩猩用面部表情进行交流。