单身美好-不会过于怀疑自己(3)

单身美好

 

Good to be single

 

You don't have to constantly¹ explainyourself and your decisions

 

你不必不断地向别人解释自己的所作所为

 

A decision is a decision, and that’s it.If it's something you feel strongly enough about, that should be reason enough for your counter² part's support.

 

决定就是决定，而且是对的。如果你觉得某件事你需要强大的支持，那也应该来自你的合作伙伴。

 

Sure, it's natural to ask questions, but that's quite different than constantly having to defend yourself.

 

当然，提问是很正常的，但这与不断不得不捍卫自己完全是两码事。

 

You don't question yourself so much

 

你不会过于怀疑自己

 

The sign of an unhealthy relationship isone in which you never really feel confident in any decision or thought youmake or have.

 

一段不健康的恋爱关系的一个标志就是你从不会对自己的决定和想法真正有信心。

 

If you are constantly wondering if youare good enough, then you need to nix the source³ of these concerns, and if it's your partner, so be it — you'll be better off without him or her.

 

如果你经常考虑自己做得是否够好的话，那么你需要找出这些问题的根源，如果问题出在你的伴侣身上，那你还是放手吧！—没有他/她你会过得更好。

1 constantly   

adv.不变地，不断地，时常地

参考例句：

• The two countries have been warring constantly for years.这两国多年来一直交战。
• We should constantly urge ourselves on to study hard.我们要经常鞭策自己努力学习。

2 counter   

n.柜台；计数器；adj.相反的；adv.与…相反地；vt.反对，反击；vi.反对，反击

参考例句：

• This counter is closed now.这个柜台现在已停止营业。
• Set the counter to zero and you'll know where the recording starts.把计数器拨到零，你就会知道录音从哪儿开始。

3 source   

n.来源，水源；原始资料

参考例句：

• They mentioned you as a good source of information.他们说你消息灵通。
• All works of art have life as their source.一切文艺创作都来源于生活。