战胜恐惧-直面你的恐惧(2)

Fight Fear

 

战胜恐惧

 

Face your fears

 

直面你的恐惧

 

The most effective way to get over a fear is to take it head on so identify what exactly it is that scares you about love.

 

克服恐惧的最有效的方式就是直面恐惧，确定让你真正害怕爱的原因。

 

Is it abandonment? Rejection¹? Vulnerability? Why do you have those fears?

 

是抛弃吗？拒绝？脆弱？为什么你有这些恐惧？

 

Is there something in your past that you need to deal with that is causing them?

 

你需要处理造成恐惧的过去的某种经历吗？

 

If so, that is not something to be a shamed of.

 

如果是这样的，没有什么感到羞愧的。

 

We all have issues that need to be addressed, so be truthful² with yourself and work to deal with the root of your fears.

 

我们都有一些需要处理的问题，所以要对自己真诚，努力去处理你恐惧的根源。

1 rejection   

n.拒绝，被拒，抛弃，被弃

参考例句：

• He decided not to approach her for fear of rejection.他因怕遭拒绝决定不再去找她。
• The rejection plunged her into the dark depths of despair.遭到拒绝使她陷入了绝望的深渊。

2 truthful   

adj.真实的，说实话的，诚实的

参考例句：

• You can count on him for a truthful report of the accident.你放心，他会对事故作出如实的报告的。
• I don't think you are being entirely truthful.我认为你并没全讲真话。