福克斯新闻 童年有过性虐待阴影的父母如何跨越心理障碍

Fox on Family. Parents who are also survivors² of childhood sex abuse, can face parenting hurdles³ from their trauma⁴. "One mother said I don't drop my child off at anybody's house where I don't know every single person that's gonna be in that house because I'm so terrified."

But therapist Teresa Gil, who's written a book about survivor¹ moms, focuses on their strength and resiliency. "We need to look at the courage of these mothers and we need to be able to harness their desire to want to be better mothers."

Using their insight to break a cycle of abuse, protecting the next generation.

Doctor Gil says an important part of that strength is a support system. "Someone that they can talk to about mothering, discuss issues around how to manage certain behaviors with their kids, or just know that somebody is there for them."

Something we all want to pass on to our kids, how to build those healthy relationships.

With FOX on Family, I'm Lisa Brady.

从儿童期性虐待遭遇幸存下来的人为人父母后，自身的遭遇可能会给他们带来抚养方面的障碍。“一位母亲曾说，她不会把孩子送到任何一个哪怕只有一个人她不认识的人家门口，因为她太害怕了。”

但写过一本关于幸存者母亲的著作的治疗师特蕾莎·吉尔关注的是这些妈妈的力量和韧劲儿。“我们要看到这些母亲的勇气，要能够驾驭她们想成为更好的母亲的愿望。”

利用他们打破虐待的恶性循环的洞察力来保护我们的下一代。

吉尔医生说，这种力量的一个重要组成部分就是她们背后要有支持她们的人际网络。“就是那种她们能够敞开心扉讨论如何当妈妈，讨论如何管理在孩子面前的某些行为方面的问题的人，或者哪怕是知道有人在她们身边支持她们也好。”

也就是我们想要传递给我们的孩子的关于如何建立良好的人际关系的东西。

感谢您收听《福克斯家庭新闻》，我是丽萨·布莱迪。

1 survivor   

n.生存者，残存者，幸存者

参考例句：

• The sole survivor of the crash was an infant.这次撞车的惟一幸存者是一个婴儿。
• There was only one survivor of the plane crash.这次飞机失事中只有一名幸存者。

2 survivors   

幸存者，残存者，生还者( survivor的名词复数 )

参考例句：

• The survivors were adrift in a lifeboat for six days. 幸存者在救生艇上漂流了六天。
• survivors clinging to a raft 紧紧抓住救生筏的幸存者

3 hurdles   

n.障碍( hurdle的名词复数 )；跳栏；（供人或马跳跃的）栏架；跨栏赛

参考例句：

• In starting a new company, many hurdles must be crossed. 刚开办一个公司时，必须克服许多障碍。 来自《简明英汉词典》
• There are several hurdles to be got over in this project. 在这项工程中有一些困难要克服。 来自辞典例句

4 trauma   

n.外伤，精神创伤

参考例句：

• Counselling is helping him work through this trauma.心理辅导正帮助他面对痛苦。
• The phobia may have its root in a childhood trauma.恐惧症可能源于童年时期的创伤。