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Feeling Loved
Feeling loved and knowing that you are worthy1 of love are necessary to creating or maintaining any relationship .
Lance and Rebecca were already married with a son when Lance enrolled2 in law school . Three years later Lance was the only student in his graduating class still married to the same person .Lance and Rebecca both admit ,however ,that those years were "terrible".
Rebecca said ,"I felt like Lance was in law school and I was knee-deep in changing diapers,but that there wasn't really a'we."
Their relationship continued in a state of wedded3 mediocrity after law school .Then eight years later a doctor told Rebecca she had a terminal disease.
" I didn't want anything fixed4 .I wanted to be hugged and held,"Rebecca remembers."But Lance ran away."
Eventually ,another doctor caught the misdiagnosis.Rebecca's health improved dramatically.The emotional healing,however ,took longer.
"For me ,it's leting go of resentments5 and scars for the years when I felt alone and then when I thought I was dying,"she said."I know I'm loved ,and I will always be loved .And Lance is trying harder to show it in all kinds of ways .To love so much that you are always there."
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adj.(of)值得的,配得上的;有价值的 | |
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2 enrolled | |
adj.入学登记了的v.[亦作enrol]( enroll的过去式和过去分词 );登记,招收,使入伍(或入会、入学等),参加,成为成员;记入名册;卷起,包起 | |
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adj.正式结婚的;渴望…的,执著于…的v.嫁,娶,(与…)结婚( wed的过去式和过去分词 ) | |
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adj.固定的,不变的,准备好的;(计算机)固定的 | |
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5 resentments | |
(因受虐待而)愤恨,不满,怨恨( resentment的名词复数 ) | |
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