情满人间的温馨故事 第22期:让爱人心情愉快的五个方法(下)

　　4.take an active interest.
4.表达出积极的兴趣
Take a real interest in the things important to your special someone.listento him or her andhavea conversation aboutntheir hobbies.career etc.
对爱人感到重要的事情表达出真正的兴趣.对他们的爱好和工作等要倾听和交谈。
Learn something new about the topic.it will make them feel undersood.
从这些话题中了解些新情况，这么做会使他们觉的被理解。
5.do special things just for them
5.特意为他们做些事情
Find out what the special person likes .do you like cards, flowers, foot rubs¹, special books or magazines?
用心了解爱人喜欢什么东西。卡片,花朵,鞋刷,特别的书籍或是杂志?
You may not like or want the same things. that's ok.
你可能不喜欢或不需要同样的东西,没关系。
Do something or give something they like.make them feel special see how many of these you can practice in one week with special people in your life and watch your relationships and intimacy² grow.
做些他们喜欢的事情或给他们一些喜欢的东西,让他们感觉很特别。给自己一周时间试试以上的方法,为你的一生之爱做些事情,看看你们的关系有没有进一步发展。

1 rubs   

v.擦( rub的第三人称单数 )；擦掉；涂；（使）相互磨擦

参考例句：

• It rubs to be presided over by such a man. 受这样的人管辖真是使人恼火。 来自《现代英汉综合大词典》
• That door rubs on the floor. 那扇门与地板摩擦。 来自《简明英汉词典》

2 intimacy   

n.熟悉，亲密，密切关系，亲昵的言行

参考例句：

• His claims to an intimacy with the President are somewhat exaggerated.他声称自己与总统关系密切，这有点言过其实。
• I wish there were a rule book for intimacy.我希望能有个关于亲密的规则。