被人在意的幸福

被人在意的幸福
look at a newspaper， read an essay， "is merely your own audience，" said deep text resonate with the real situation． Few hundred words of the confusion of Health has revealed．
The article said： friends， leadership， dining with strangers， you do not accidentally drip juices in the body， bending quickly， and did not expect to glass， you think　and even red． In fact， you do not know when you face the embarrassment¹ when a hurry to clean up the mess， everyone in the rhetoric²， no one pay attention to your distress³， feel unhappy about the loss of face and only your own； protecting the transient drinking are strong， you leave or go to the bathroom outside to air， no matter how long you go， perhaps no one come to you， and when you return to time， perhaps people who are empty houses， a mess．
Reveals the fact that the two cases is very cruel． Just think， we live in this self－overestimation of the phenomenon is not a lot of it? Sorry for the one thing you have to or ， while others are calm， and feelings are your own， very often， no one care about your embarrassing or scenery．
Be concerned about， because of your joy and happiness， because of your grief and sorrow， because of your words and sad because of your face and sunny smile， how happy you? Because you were concerned about the． Not everyone was so worry about， not everyone will care about such a being． Only that， as your friend， depending on the soul of your lover you care about such talents． Then you will be because of some deep－rooted misunderstanding of the germinal sad， and even violent behavior and care， or sad it?
Life is wine market， we rarely have the opportunity to every person sitting in chief， most of the time we can only appreciate their own， we are only their own audience． Let us lucky： there are people concerned about their own！ Let us treasure： a pair of right close by home， or the End of the World that look of concern， and that the heart of a heated， because it may be invisible， but can hardly touch the real world．
忙里偷闲看一份报纸，读到一篇小品文《你只是自己的观众》，深为文字中透露的真实现状共鸣。寥寥数百字揭示了生之困惑。
文章中说：和朋友、领导、陌生人一起用餐，你不小心把菜汁滴落在身上，赶忙弯腰去擦，没想到把酒杯又弄倒了，你觉得很狼狈，甚至面红耳赤。其实你不知道当你一脸尴尬急忙收拾残局的时候，大家都在高谈阔论，没人注意你的窘迫，觉的丢面子而不高兴的只是你自己；酒兴正浓时，你离席去洗手间或者外面去透气，不论你去多久，或许没人来找你，而当你返回去时，或许人去屋空，狼藉一片。
两个事例揭示的事实很残酷。试想想，我们生活中这种自我高估的现象不是很多吗?你为一件事难过得肝肠寸断或者喜不自胜，而对别人则是风平浪静，感受是你自己的，很多时候，没人在意你的尴尬或风光。
被人在意，因你的喜而喜，因你的悲而悲，因你的一句话而难过，因你的一脸笑而阳光明媚，你该有多幸福?因为你被人在意了。不是每个人都能如此被人牵肠挂肚，不是每个人都会这般被人在乎。只有那个视你为知己，视你为灵魂爱人的人才这般在乎你。那么你还会因为一些盘根错节的误会生发的哀怨，甚至过激的言行而在意，或者悲伤吗?
人生是酒场，我们每个人很少有机会坐在首席，多数时间我们只能自己欣赏自己，我们只是自己的观众。那么让我们庆幸：还有人在意自己！让我们珍藏：咫尺或天涯那一双关注的眼神，那一颗炽热的心吧，因为那或许是看不见，但能触摸的世间难求的真情。

1 embarrassment   

n.尴尬；使人为难的人(事物)；障碍；窘迫

参考例句：

• She could have died away with embarrassment.她窘迫得要死。
• Coughing at a concert can be a real embarrassment.在音乐会上咳嗽真会使人难堪。

2 rhetoric   

n.修辞学，浮夸之言语

参考例句：

• Do you know something about rhetoric?你懂点修辞学吗？
• Behind all the rhetoric,his relations with the army are dangerously poised.在冠冕堂皇的言辞背后，他和军队的关系岌岌可危。

3 distress   

n.苦恼，痛苦，不舒适；不幸；vt.使悲痛

参考例句：

• Nothing could alleviate his distress.什么都不能减轻他的痛苦。
• Please don't distress yourself.请你不要忧愁了。