人生的大石头

    人生的大石头
    什么是人生的大石头?一天，一位时间管理的专家为他的学生们做了一个现场演示，给在场的每个人留下了深刻的印象……
One day， an expert in time management was speaking to a group of students and， to drive home a point， used an illustration those students will never forget．
As he stood in front of the group of overachievers he said， “OK， time for a quiz．” He pulled out a one－gallon， wide－mouth jar and set it on the table in front of him． He also produced about a dozen fist－sized rocks and carefully placed them， one at a time， into the jar． When the jar was filled to the top and no more rocks would fit inside， he asked， “Is this jar full?”
Everyone in the class yelled， “Yes．” The time management expert replied， “Really?” He reached under the table and pulled out a bucket of gravel¹． He dumped some gravel in and shook the jar， causing pieces of gravel to work themselves down into the spaces between the big rocks． He then asked the group once more， “Is this jar full?”
By this time the class was on to him． “Probably not，” one of them answered． “Good!” he replied． He reached under the table and brought out a bucket of sand． He started dumping the sand in the jar and it went into all of the spaces left between the rocks and the gravel． Once more he asked the question， “Is this jar full?”
“No!” the class shouted． Once again he said， “Good．” Then he grabbed a pitcher² of water and began to pour it in until the jar was filled to the brim． Then he looked at the class and asked， “What is the point of this illustration?” One eager student raised his hand and said， “The point is， no matter how full your schedule is， if you try really hard you can always fit some more things in it!”
“No，” the speaker replied， “that's not the point． The truth this illustration teaches us is if you don't put the big rocks in first， you'll never get them in at all． What are the 'big rocks' in your life? Time with your loved ones， your education， your dreams， a worthy³ cause， teaching or mentoring⁴ others? Remember to put these big rocks in first or you'll never get them in at all．

1 gravel   

n.砂跞；砂砾层；结石

参考例句：

• We bought six bags of gravel for the garden path.我们购买了六袋碎石用来铺花园的小路。
• More gravel is needed to fill the hollow in the drive.需要更多的砾石来填平车道上的坑洼。

2 pitcher   

n.(有嘴和柄的)大水罐；(棒球)投手

参考例句：

• He poured the milk out of the pitcher.他从大罐中倒出牛奶。
• Any pitcher is liable to crack during a tight game.任何投手在紧张的比赛中都可能会失常。

3 worthy   

adj.(of)值得的，配得上的；有价值的

参考例句：

• I did not esteem him to be worthy of trust.我认为他不值得信赖。
• There occurred nothing that was worthy to be mentioned.没有值得一提的事发生。

4 mentoring   

n.mentoring是一种工作关系。mentor通常是处在比mentee更高工作职位上的有影响力的人。他/她有比‘mentee’更丰富的工作经验和知识，并用心支持mentee的职业（发展）。v.（无经验之人的）有经验可信赖的顾问( mentor的现在分词 )

参考例句：

• One of the most effective instruments for coaching and mentoring is the "role rehearsal" . 辅导和教学的最有效的手段之一是“角色排练。” 来自辞典例句
• Bell Canada called their mentoring system a buddy-buddy system. 加拿大贝尔公司称他们的训导系统是伙伴—伙伴系统。 来自互联网