做3件事,让你成为更幸福的人

 　　1. Forgive everyone

　　1.原谅所有人

　　The first step to becoming a better person is forgiveness. This can be a difficult one, but by learning to forgive everyone, your life will become much easier and happier. First of all, you should forgive your parents. Everybody has some scars¹ from their childhood, even if they’re raised by wonderful parents, and perhaps you are no exception. Remember it was in the past and you live in the present so let go of those past childhood hurts and you will feel much better. No parent is ideal. They have never raised kids before, and sometimes they’re learning as well as growing with their kids.

　　成为一个更幸福的人的第一步就是原谅。这是很难做到的一点，但是通过学会原谅所有人，你的生活会变得更加容易和幸福。首先，你应该原谅你的杜牧。每个人在他们的童年的时候，都会留下一些上吧，即使他们父母对孩子照顾得无微不至，或许你也不例外。记住那些都是过去的事情了，你要活在当下，所以忘却那些儿时的伤害，你会感觉更好。没有完美的父母。他们以前也从未抚养过孩子，有时候他们在与自己的孩子相处的过程中，边学边成长。

　　2. Learn to keep your dignity

　　2.学会保持自己的尊严

　　Another important thing to do to become a better person is to learn how to keep your dignity. Keep in mind that only you’re responsible for your choices and decisions in life and never get down on yourself when you do something wrong.

　　成为更幸福的人，另一个重要的事情就是学会如何保持自己的尊严。要记住你只有你对自己生活的选择和决定负责，当你做错事情的时候，永远不要萎靡不振。

　　Even if someone hurts you or you have a big disagreement with somebody, don’t let anyone or anything bring you down and remind yourself that your life is unique, special and really worthwhile.

　　即使有人伤害了你，或是你和别人有很大的分歧，不要让任何人或者事情打垮你，提醒自己：你的生命是独一无二的，特别的，真正有价值的。

　　3. Pursue your passion

　　3.追求你的目标

　　It’s important to find yourself and pursue your passion. Learn to listen to your inner self, and this will help you make your dreams a reality and become a better person, even when someone is trying to bring you down.

　　找到自我，追求自己的目标很重要。学会倾听自己的内心，这会帮助你梦想成真，成为更幸福的人，即使有人想要打垮你。

　　Some people try to bring you down because they’re too weak and diffident to pursue their passions and they think you shouldn’t pursue yours. Don’t listen to them. Spend time with yourself and think about the thing that bring you joy. You’ll soon discover your passion and start pursuing it.

　　有人想要打垮你，因为他们太虚弱，缺乏信心，而不能追求自己的目标，他们认为你不应该追求你的目标。不要听信他们的话。花时间独处，想想那些给你带来快乐的事情。你很快就能发现自己的激情所在，然后开始追求目标。

1 scars   

n.伤痕( scar的名词复数 )；精神上的创伤；有损外观的地方；裸岩

参考例句：

• Slowly the war scars faded. 战争的创伤慢慢地消失了。 来自《现代汉英综合大词典》
• I've got scars from head to toe in tribute to my courage. 为了嘉奖我的胆量，我得到浑身的伤疤。 来自辞典例句