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"Each morning we are born again. What we do today is what matters most." --- BuddhaWe're several days into the New Year, and many of us are still basking1 in the glow of a fresh start.
Every new year brings renewed optimism for change, for a better life, for a better you. And that's a wonderful thing.
It's wonderful, because this fresh start gives us a chance to reinvent our lives and ourselves. It allows us to reinvigorate ourselves, to shed the baggage of the previous year and do anything. Anything is possible!
That is a gift, my friends, and I suggest we make the most of this gift. Not just by creating and sticking to resolutions (here's my guide for doing that), but by reinventing the way we live.
Here's how.
1. Let go.
Many times we are held back by the tangled2 web of previous failures, commitments, emotions, barriers. We cannot change careers because we're used to what we're doing and it's too hard to change. We cannot find time to get healthy and fit because we have all these other things to do. We cannot find time for our loved ones because we have too many commitments.
This is all old baggage. A fresh start demands a clean slate3. Let everything from the past go (easier said than done, I know). Clear your plate and your palate.
Let go of attachments4 to what you've been doing for the past year, or years. Let go of failures. Let go of fears you've built up. Let go of reluctance5. Let go of your ideas about what your life has to be like, because that's the way it's evolved so far. Let go of long-held beliefs and habits.
You have a fresh start. Let go of last year, and start anew.
2. Decide what matters most today.
Forget about your goals for all of this year. Instead, decide: what do you want to do today?
What matters most to you, to your life? What are you most passionate6 about, right now? What excites and invigorates you? What would give you the most fulfillment?
Often the answer is in creating something, making something new, helping7 other people, becoming a better person, working on a project that will be an accomplishment8 to be proud of. But whatever your answer, have it clear in your mind at the beginning of the day.
This might be something you work on all year, or it might just last a month, or it might last a week or a few days, or just today. It doesn't matter. What matters is today — that you're going to work on this with all your heart, today. Tomorrow … we'll decide on that tomorrow.
3. Clear away distractions9 and focus.
Clear away email and Facebook and Twitter and your favorite blogs and news websites and social forums10, clear away the iPhone or Blackberry or Android or cell phone, clear away all the little nagging11 work and chores and errands that pull at your attention, clear away the clutter12 that surrounds you (sweep it off to the side to deal with later).
In fact, if you can, shut off the Internet for a while. You can come back to it when you take a break.
Now, find focus. Even if only for 15 or 20 minutes at first, but preferably for 30-60 minutes. You can take a break and check your email or whatever after you've focused. Focus on the thing that matters most. Do it for as long as you can, until you're done if possible. Feel free to take breaks, but always return to your focus.
When you're done, focus on the next thing that matters most, and so on.
4. Find happiness now.
Don't look at happiness as something that will come when you're done with this goal, or when you've attained13 a certain accomplishment or certain amount of wealth or material goods. Don't look at happiness as a destination, something that you'll get later.
Happiness is possible right now. Always remember that. When you push it back until later, it'll never come. When you learn to be happy now, it'll always be here.
When you're doing whatever you're passionate about, whatever matters most, whatever you decide is worthy14 of your time and heart and focus … be happy! You're doing what you love. And that is truly a gift.
5. Reinvent yourself, every day.
Every day, you are reborn. Reinvent yourself and your life, every day. Do what matters most to you, that day.
It might be the same thing that mattered most yesterday, or it might not be. That isn't important. What's important is today — right now. Be passionate, be happy, right now.
You'll have a fresh start every single day — not just on January 1. And that, my friends, is the best thing ever.
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1 basking | |
v.晒太阳,取暖( bask的现在分词 );对…感到乐趣;因他人的功绩而出名;仰仗…的余泽 | |
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adj. 纠缠的,紊乱的 动词tangle的过去式和过去分词 | |
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n.板岩,石板,石片,石板色,候选人名单;adj.暗蓝灰色的,含板岩的;vt.用石板覆盖,痛打,提名,预订 | |
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n.(用电子邮件发送的)附件( attachment的名词复数 );附着;连接;附属物 | |
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9 distractions | |
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10 forums | |
讨论会; 座谈会; 广播专题讲话节目; 集会的公共场所( forum的名词复数 ); 论坛,讨论会,专题讨论节目; 法庭 | |
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adj.唠叨的,挑剔的;使人不得安宁的v.不断地挑剔或批评(某人)( nag的现在分词 );不断地烦扰或伤害(某人);无休止地抱怨;不断指责 | |
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(通常经过努力)实现( attain的过去式和过去分词 ); 达到; 获得; 达到(某年龄、水平、状况) | |
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