生活中哪些真相让会你心碎？

 国外问答网站Quora上面经常会有一些特别精彩的问题和答案，今天我们跟大家分享其中一个问题。

　　What is the most disturbing truth about life?

　　人生最令人不安的真相是什么?

生活中哪些真相让会你心碎？

　　获得3.9k好评的回答：@Abhinav Tyagi

　　I would like to answer this with a quote,"Everyone in this world is self-centered. It’s just the radiusthat makes the difference."

　　我想引用一句话回复你：在这个世界上，每个人都是以自我为中心的，只是每个人的半径有所不同。

　　获得7.4k好评的回答：@Sree Ramanath

　　Success hugs you in private but failure slaps¹ you in public.

　　成功都是悄悄接近你的，但是失败却是当众打你脸的。

　　获得6.9k好评的回答：@Barbie Giri

　　We all had that one close person in our lives, who is now a stranger. During the course of your life, you will have to stop, and let some people off, no matter how close they are. And someday while reading something like this, you will look back and count.

　　我们生命都有过那个ta，曾经形容不离，后来形同陌路。在生命的慢慢长路上，你都有必须停下来的时候，让他人离开你，无论他们同你多么亲近。而某一天，当你读到这类文字的时候，你会回头看看，然后回忆，回忆，回忆。

　　获得1k好评的回答：@Brandon Lee

　　Most people in life have to spend years relearning the exact same lessons that the previous generation have already learned².

　　生活中太多人，必须耗费多年重学前人已经学会的东西。

　　获得8.2k好评的回答：@Ashish Sareen

　　Your looks matter!! You will always be judged first on the basis of your appearance before anything else.

　　你的长相至关重要!!你总是会被第一眼以貌取人。

　　获得6.4k好评的回答：@Sachin R Kamath

　　"Happiness is your biggest enemy. It weakens³ you. Puts doubts in your mind. Suddenly you have something to lose."- Niki Lauda, Rush(2013)

　　“幸福是最大的敌人，它让你软弱，让你心生怀疑。突然间你就有了放不下的事。”尼基·劳达《极速风流》(2013)

　　获得10.9k好评的回答：@Akash Maheshwari

　　Friends come and go, but enemies remain and build up.

　　友人来来去去，但敌人越积多。

　　获得4.5k好评的回答：@Shivam Sarawagi

　　85% of your financial success is due to your personality and ability to communicate, negotiate⁴, and lead. Shockingly⁵, only 15% is due to technical knowledge.

　　你在财政上的成功85%取决于你的个性、你交际、商谈和领导的能力。令人震惊的是，只有15%取决于你的专业知识。

　　获得4k好评的回答：@ Akshay Vannery

　　Nothing really matters. In the grand scheme of things, you, your legacy⁶, your existence, your contribution to the world.. doesn't matter how great it is..Time will destroyeverything.

　　没有什么是至关重要的。从事物的宏观角度出发，你、你的遗产、你的存在、你对世界的贡献无论多么伟大，都不值一提。时间会摧毁一切。

　　获得11.3k好评的回答：@Anonymous

　　-No one apart from your parents gives a crap about you.

　　除了你的父母别人都会嫌弃你。

　　-Your friends want you to be successful but not more successful than them.

　　你的朋友希望你很成功--但是不要比他们成功。

　　-Your friends want you to be happy but not happier than them.

　　你的朋友希望你过得开心--但是不要比他们开心。

1 slaps   

n.拍打声，类似拍打的声音( slap的名词复数 )v.掌击，拍打( slap的第三人称单数 )；制止；镇压；（尤指生气地）啪的一声放下

参考例句：

• I received two slaps on the face myself. 我自己脸上挨了两次刮。 来自辞典例句
• KRAMER: [slaps George on the arm] You keep me posted! 克雷默：那你得经常告诉我消息！ 来自互联网

2 learned   

adj.有学问的，博学的；learn的过去式和过去分词

参考例句：

• He went into a rage when he learned about it.他听到这事后勃然大怒。
• In this little village,he passed for a learned man.在这个小村子里，他被视为有学问的人。

3 weakens   

v.（使）削弱， （使）变弱( weaken的第三人称单数 )

参考例句：

• "Cousins shouldn't marry, even second cousins. It weakens the strain. "表兄妹不应该结婚，就是从表兄妹也不应该，那会削弱血统的。 来自飘（部分）
• The burlesque element weakens the serious portions of the book. 书里的戏谑成分使严肃部分受到损害。 来自辞典例句

4 negotiate   

v.洽谈，协商，谈判，顺利通过，成功越过

参考例句：

• I'll negotiate with their coach on the date of the match.我将与他们的教练磋商比赛的日期问题。
• I managed to negotiate successfully with the authorities.我设法同当局进行了成功的协商。

5 shockingly   

adv.骇人地，很坏地

参考例句：

• Then the young mother mentioned some shockingly modern succedaneum. 接下去，那位年轻的母亲提到一种挺新的代用品。 来自辞典例句
• A shockingly ugly old person, almost as black as coal. 是个很丑的老太婆，黑得简直象煤炭一样。 来自互联网

6 legacy   

n.遗产，遗赠；先人(或过去)留下的东西

参考例句：

• They are the most precious cultural legacy our forefathers left.它们是我们祖先留下来的最宝贵的文化遗产。
• He thinks the legacy is a gift from the Gods.他认为这笔遗产是天赐之物。