一本现实主义爱情诗集记录下凡人眼中的爱情

 

A Book of Real Life Love Poems Takes a Down to Earth Look at Affection

一本现实主义爱情诗集记录下凡人眼中的爱情

 

To celebrate Valentine's Day (February 14), millions of Americans gave or received traditional gifts of the season … chocolate, flowers, jewelry¹. But Mary Esselman and Elizabeth Ash Velez favor a more literate² approach to romance. The writers share a love for poetry. They always enjoyed reading, exchanging and collecting poems… especially love poems. Ms. Velez, an English Professor at Georgetown University, says most collections feature verses about unbelievably idealized love. So, when she and her friend complied their collection, they chose love poems for real life, and called it You Drive Me Crazy.

 

Elizabeth Velez: The You Drive Me Crazy part can be seen in two ways. You drive me crazy because I'm so madly in love with you. You drive me crazy because you leave your dirty clothes all over the floor all the time. We wanted poems through people that don't believe love is a fairy tale. We want to take readers through all of those phases of love.

 

In depicting³ those different phases of love, English teacher and writer Mary Esselman says they arranged the more than five dozen poems into chapters… starting with "When Love Rocks", moving on to "When Love Keeps You Guessing" and ending with "When Love Shines."

 

Mary Esselman: When you feel that you've been through some ups and downs in your relationship, but you at last found acceptance and peace there and you made it through. It's not necessarily about a mature love, but it's less flowers, roses and diamond and chocolates and that kind of superficial look of love. It's more in depth look at how you go through lots of different things when you are in love with someone over a long period of time.

 

For example, Elizabeth Velez says, American poet William Carlos William finds deep emotions in the very simple acts of every day life, as in this poem, 'This is Just to Say.'

 

Elizabeth Velez: I have eaten / The plums / that were in / the icebox and which / you were probably / saving / for breakfast/ Forgive me / they were delicious / so sweet / and so cold

 

You Drive Me Crazy also includes works by William Shakespeare, Emily Dickinson and Nobel Prize-winning Chilean poet Pablo Neruda. It gets a modern touch from poets like Chinese American Li-Yong Lee and Sharon Olds, who is often described as a confessional poet.

 

Ms. Velez turns to one of her favorite poems in the collection, by 1st century Hindu Philosopher Bhartrhari.

 

Elizabeth Velez: It gets at one of the first things that happens to us when we think we are ecstatically in love and we think we are one person. And the fact that a poet 2000 years ago recognized this I think is just extraordinary. The poem is called 'In former days we would both agree' and translated by John Brough: In former days we'd both agree / That you were me, and I was you. / What has now happened to us two, / That you are you, and I am me?

 

Ms. Velez says a poem by the 13th century Persian poet Rumi is one of most intriguing⁴ in the collection.

 

Elizabeth Velez: The thing about Rumi is that he is looked at as a great sage⁵ in terms of wisdom. And people even have expectations about that and this poem we just think is extraordinary. It's called 'Last Night You Left Me and Slept:' Last night you left me and slept / your down deep sleep. Tonight you turn / and turn. I say / 'You and I will be together / till the universe dissolves.' / You mumble⁶ back things you thought of / When you were drunk. That's Rumi! What we like about that is there they are, they're together. One of them is thinking we are going to be together forever. The other one is mumbling⁷ things he thought when he was drunk.

 

Elizabeth Ash Velez and Mary Esselman say these poems will live forever and never lose their appeal because they are speaking to our deepest emotions. A collection of real life love poems, they say, could be the best gift for the happily-in-love … and the heartbroken, on Valentine's Day and every day.

 

I’m Faiza Elmasry.

 

注释：

verse [vE:s] n. 韵文，诗

idealize [ai5diElaiz] v. 理想化

fairy tale 童话

phase [feiz] n. 阶段，状态

superficial [sju:pE5fiFEl] adj. 表面的，肤浅的

confessional [kEn5feFEn(E)l] adj. 自白的，忏悔的

Hindu [5hindu:] adj. 印度的

intriguing [in5tri:^iN] adj. 迷人的

heartbroken [5hB:tbrEuk(E)n] adj. 悲伤的

1 jewelry   

n.（jewllery）（总称）珠宝

参考例句：

• The burglars walked off with all my jewelry.夜盗偷走了我的全部珠宝。
• Jewelry and lace are mostly feminine belongings.珠宝和花边多数是女性用品。

2 literate   

n.学者；adj.精通文学的，受过教育的

参考例句：

• Only a few of the nation's peasants are literate.这个国家的农民中只有少数人能识字。
• A literate person can get knowledge through reading many books.一个受过教育的人可以通过读书而获得知识。

3 depicting   

描绘，描画( depict的现在分词 )； 描述

参考例句：

• a painting depicting the Virgin and Child 一幅描绘童贞马利亚和圣子耶稣的画
• The movie depicting the battles and bloodshed is bound to strike home. 这部描写战斗和流血牺牲的影片一定会取得预期效果。

4 intriguing   

adj.有趣的；迷人的v.搞阴谋诡计(intrigue的现在分词)；激起…的好奇心

参考例句：

• These discoveries raise intriguing questions. 这些发现带来了非常有趣的问题。
• It all sounds very intriguing. 这些听起来都很有趣。 来自《简明英汉词典》

5 sage   

n.圣人，哲人；adj.贤明的，明智的

参考例句：

• I was grateful for the old man's sage advice.我很感激那位老人贤明的忠告。
• The sage is the instructor of a hundred ages.这位哲人是百代之师。

6 mumble   

n./v.喃喃而语，咕哝

参考例句：

• Her grandmother mumbled in her sleep.她祖母含混不清地说着梦话。
• He could hear the low mumble of Navarro's voice.他能听到纳瓦罗在小声咕哝。

7 mumbling   

含糊地说某事，叽咕，咕哝( mumble的现在分词 )

参考例句：

• I could hear him mumbling to himself. 我听到他在喃喃自语。
• He was still mumbling something about hospitals at the end of the party when he slipped on a piece of ice and broke his left leg. 宴会结束时，他仍在咕哝着医院里的事。说着说着，他在一块冰上滑倒，跌断了左腿。