内心强大的信号-不会试图掩盖自己的弱点(4)

signs of mental strength

 

内心强大的信号

 

You learn from your mistakes.

 

你能从错误中吸取经验

 

Don't justify¹ them. Don't hide fromthem. Learn from them. That's what mentally strong people do.

 

别为犯错找借口，也不要隐瞒错误。从错误中学习。那就是内心强大的人会做的事情。

 

You express gratitude²

 

你会表达感恩之情

 

It's easy to look around and see all the things you lack, but the mentally strong choose to focus their attention on the things they do have--and feel grateful for them. Do you?

 

环顾四周，自己缺少的东西一目了然。但内心强大的人会选择专注于当下真实拥有的东西，并以此表现感恩。你是不是也这样呢?

 

You don't try to hide your weaknesses

 

你不会试图掩盖自己的弱点

 

Not only does trying to mask your weaknesses waste your energy, it also makes you less likely to put in the work necessary to improve these areas.

 

不仅在掩盖弱点的过程会削弱自己的力量，还会减少实现自我完善的努力。

1 justify   

vt.证明…正当(或有理)，为…辩护

参考例句：

• He tried to justify his absence with lame excuses.他想用站不住脚的借口为自己的缺席辩解。
• Can you justify your rude behavior to me?你能向我证明你的粗野行为是有道理的吗？

2 gratitude   

adj.感激，感谢

参考例句：

• I have expressed the depth of my gratitude to him.我向他表示了深切的谢意。
• She could not help her tears of gratitude rolling down her face.她感激的泪珠禁不住沿着面颊流了下来。