告别前任-快刀斩乱麻(1)

Say bye to Ex

 

告别前任

 

Take Him or Her Off That Pedestal

 

把TA从你心里的神座上拉下来

 

First things first: Stop acting¹ likeyour ex was God's gift. Make a list of his or her annoying traits. Let your buddies² bad-mouth her.

 

首先的首先：不要再认为你的前任是上帝赐给你的礼物。列一个TA的八婆特质清单。让你的好朋友给你说说TA的坏话。

 

Get Closure

 

快刀斩乱麻

 

If you’re going to break up with him orher, don't put it off. Make sure you're both on the same page. This is a breakup. The two of you are moving on, which means potentially seeing otherpeople. If you feel the need to do a relationship postmortem, do it now. Youwon’t be seeing her again for a while.

 

一旦你决定分手，那么不要拖。要让对方明白现在是个什么情况，这是分手。如果你们两个人都决定分手那么意味着你们都想认识其他人。如果你想让你的感情成为过去式，那么当机立断。这样你也不会再见到TA。

 

 

【知识点讲解】

 

break up 结束，散会；解散，驱散；关系破裂，离异；衰弱

 

例句：

 

The stricken tanker³ began to break up on the rocks.

 

油轮被击中后撞上礁石,毁了。

 

They decided⁴ to break up the partnership⁵.

 

他们决定终止合作关系。

 

move on 继续前进； 更换工作(话题等)； 离开

 

例句：

 

Shall we move on to dessert?

 

咱们上甜食好吗?

 

The captain and his group moved on, but the story of the little boy spread quickly.

 

上尉和他的小队继续前进了，但这位小男孩的事迹很快传开了。

1 acting   

n.演戏，行为，假装；adj.代理的，临时的，演出用的

参考例句：

• Ignore her,she's just acting.别理她，她只是假装的。
• During the seventies,her acting career was in eclipse.在七十年代，她的表演生涯黯然失色。

2 buddies   

n.密友( buddy的名词复数 )；同伴；弟兄；（用于称呼男子，常带怒气）家伙v.（如密友、战友、伙伴、弟兄般）交往( buddy的第三人称单数 )；做朋友；亲近（…）；伴护艾滋病人

参考例句：

• We became great buddies. 我们成了非常好的朋友。 来自辞典例句
• The two of them have become great buddies. 他们俩成了要好的朋友。 来自辞典例句

3 tanker   

n.油轮

参考例句：

• The tanker took on 200,000 barrels of crude oil.油轮装载了二十万桶原油。
• Heavy seas had pounded the tanker into three parts.汹涌的巨浪把油轮撞成三载。

4 decided   

adj.决定了的，坚决的；明显的，明确的

参考例句：

• This gave them a decided advantage over their opponents.这使他们比对手具有明显的优势。
• There is a decided difference between British and Chinese way of greeting.英国人和中国人打招呼的方式有很明显的区别。

5 partnership   

n.合作关系，伙伴关系

参考例句：

• The company has gone into partnership with Swiss Bank Corporation.这家公司已经和瑞士银行公司建立合作关系。
• Martin has taken him into general partnership in his company.马丁已让他成为公司的普通合伙人。