婚前想想-我的伴侣是我的坚强后盾吗(6)

 婚前想想

 

Am I a parent or a partner?

 

我是家长还是伴侣？

 

Taking care of someone you love is agreat thing to do, but when you feel like you're raising a boyfriend — orworse, a husband — things get a little complicated. You’ll resent his childish ways. Who wants to sleep with their mom?

 

照顾你爱的人是件很棒的事情，但是当你感觉到你和你男朋友像你在带小朋友一样-- 或者更糟的是，他是你丈夫-- 事情就变得很复杂了。你会对他幼稚的行为感到厌恶。谁想和自己的妈妈睡？

 

Does my partner have my back?

 

我的伴侣是我的坚强后盾吗？

 

Do you feel like you're a part of aloyal team who stands up for one another, supports one another, and shows aunited front (even when the other is not around)? Or, do you feel like you’reconstantly being thrown under the bus by your mate?

 

你是否感觉到自己身处一个忠诚的团队，彼此成为对方的坚强后盾，互相支持，总是统一而团结（哪怕对方并不在身边）？或者你经常感觉被自己的伴侣所抛弃？