管理压力的方法-不要担心其他人是怎么看待你的(3)

 　　Ways To Manage Stress Creatively

　　管理压力的方法

　　Don't worry about what other people think of you.

　　不要担心其他人是怎么看待你的

　　This is easier said than done, but Ipromise it does come with age. No one cares about what you're doing unless what you're doing affects and/or benefits¹ them in some way.

　　说起来容易，但做起来难。不过我保证随着年龄的增长，这种想法会变得容易接受些。如果你所做的事情对他们没有影响或者益处，没有人会关心你在做什么。

　　A lot of people do offer unsolicited advice, it's human nature to want to help other people… but if that advice is coming from a place of control or judgement, RUN in the opposite direction.

　　很多人会提供主动的建议，这是人类的天性——想帮助其他人……但如果这个建议是一种控制或评判，这就不对了。

　　【知识点讲解】

　　care about 关心； 在乎； 担忧； 关怀

　　例句：

　　You don't care about anything but yourself and your precious² face.

　　你什么都不关心，除了你自己和你那张娇贵的脸。

　　They look too wasted to care about much.

　　他们看上去疲惫不堪，以至于顾不上太多。

　　Joe Sixpack doesn't care about that.

　　普通工人不在意那事。

　　worry about 担忧， 烦恼； 惦念； 挂虑；

　　例句：

　　You don't have to worry about me. I'm a good swimmer.

　　你不用担心我。我水性很好。

　　They no longer worry about the homogenization of culture.

　　他们不再担心文化的同质化。

　　All kids her age do silly things; it's nothing to worry about.

　　她这个年龄的孩子都会做傻事，根本不用担心。

1 benefits   

n.津贴费；利益( benefit的名词复数 )；（给职工的）奖金；救济金；益处

参考例句：

• economic benefits accruing to the country from tourism 旅游业为该国带来的经济效益
• The article enthused about the benefits that the new system would bring. 本文热情赞扬了新制度将带来的好处。

2 precious   

adj.宝贵的，珍贵的，过于精致的，珍爱的

参考例句：

• Each life is precious.生命都是宝贵的。
• Spring rain is as precious as oil.春雨贵如油。