趣味英语第166期:应该和劈腿的男朋友分手吗?

KatyJonas wants to know...

凯蒂·乔纳斯想知道：

"Should I break up with my boyfriend if I just found out he cheated on me?"

“我刚刚发现男朋友欺骗了我，我应该和他分手吗？”

Oh, yes, you should, dear. (clicks tongue) Don't want to be with a cheater.

哦，当然，亲爱的，你应该和他分手。（咂舌头）不要和骗子在一起。

I would. (snickers)

我会分手。（窃窃发笑）

Hell¹ yeah.

当然要分。

Abso-(bleep)-lutely, you should. Are you serious?

一定要分手。你是认真的吗？

Break up with him, sister.

姐妹，和他分手。

Of course! He cheated on you! What else would you do?

当然要分手！他骗了你！还有什么别的办法？

I honestly don't think he deserves² a second chance, so dump³ him.

说实话，我认为你不应该再给他机会，所以，甩了他。

He cheated on you, and that's not cool if you're in a committed relationship with somebody. So break up with him.

他骗了你，如果你们是恋爱关系，那可不好。所以，和他分手吧。

How can you trust him if he cheats on you?

如果他骗了你，那你怎么能相信他？

It seems like he thinks little of you if he's willing to cheat with somebody else.

如果他出轨了其他人，那看起来他并不在乎你。

You shouldn't be with someone who cheats on you. I mean, it's not cool of them to do that.

你不应该和欺骗你的人在一起。我的意思是，他们不应该那么做。

I think you should, because he cheated on you. But you decide. You decide.

我认为你应该和他分手，因为他欺骗了你。不过这要由你决定。你自己做决定。

Try to work it out and find out why he cheated on you or what it was really about instead of immediately breaking up with him.

尝试解决问题，弄清楚他为什么欺骗你，或者真实情况是什么，而不是马上和他分手。

If you think this is a relationship where you can fix that and you can actually talk over it, then stay with him. But if he's the type of guy who would continue to do this with other girls and continue to cheat on you, then just end it right there, man.

如果你认为这段恋情还能挽救，那你们可以好好谈谈，继续和他在一起。但是如果他继续劈腿其他女孩，那就结束这段关系。

I think you ought to confront⁴ him. And I think you ought to evaluate your situation. People make mistakes. Sometimes you can forgive a person, but it's really hard to forget.

我认为你应该和他对质。你应该评估一下你的情况。人们都会犯错。有时你可以原谅一个人，但很难忘记所发生的事情。

1 hell   

n.地狱，阴间；用以咒骂或表示愤怒，不满

参考例句：

• It's a hell of a hike from Sydney to Perth.从悉尼到珀斯的徒步旅行简直苦死了。
• The boss really gave me hell today.老板今天着实数落了我一通。

2 deserves   

v.应受，应得，值得( deserve的第三人称单数 )；应受报答；应得报酬；应得赔偿

参考例句：

• A wilful fault has no excuse and deserves no pardon. 不能宽恕故意犯下的错误。 来自《简明英汉词典》
• He is the only poet in this country that deserves the name. 他是这个国家唯一的一位名副其实的诗人。 来自《现代汉英综合大词典》

3 dump   

n.垃圾场；v.倾卸，切断电源，倾倒

参考例句：

• Where can I dump this rubbish?我将这些垃圾倒在什么地方？
• They wheeled the rubbish out to the dump.他们把垃圾用车运到垃圾场去。

4 confront   

vt.遭遇，勇敢地面对，正视，使对质

参考例句：

• A soldier has to confront danger.士兵须面对危险。
• We must confront future with optimism.我们必须乐观地面对未来。