你在生活中需要4类人

 　　4 Types of People You Need in Your Life

　　你在生活中需要4类人

　　1. Role model

　　1.榜样

　　It is great to have a person in your life who would be a role model for you so that you keep improving yourself. I’m not saying about jealousy¹, by no means. You just know a person who is, to your mind, really awesome² and you want to have some features of character or some life principles you would also like to have. This is a good motive³ to be more professional at what you do, look after yourself better, start taking dancing classes or whatever.

　　在你的生活中用用榜样，可以让你不断提升自己，这是一件好事。我说的决不是嫉妒。你只是知道这个人是谁，在你的脑海中，非常厉害，你想拥有一些像他一样的性格特点或者一些生活准则。这是让你在你所从事的领域方面更加专业的一个好的动机，更好地照顾自己，开始参加舞蹈课程或者其他任何事情。

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　　2. The one to encourage

　　2.鼓励你的人

　　There are such special people that inspire and encourage us to live our lives to the fullest. If you are lucky to have your encourager than you will always know how special, strong, beautiful and just amazing you are. Such people make us move forward, reach goals and fight for our dreams.

　　3. Your any time rescue

　　有一种特殊的人，在我们的生活中会鼓舞和激励我们去尽最大努力生活。如果你很幸运地拥有更加能鼓励你的人，总是知道你是多么得特别，强大，美丽和惊人。这样的人会让我们前进，实现目标，为了我们的梦想而奋斗。

　　3.救星

　　It is the most precious feeling when you know that there is a person (or few) who will come to help no matter what. The situation may be of any type but the point is that you don’t feel awkward⁴ calling them and asking to give you a ride because your car went broken. Most probably you will be lectured on how great it is to have you as a friend (jokingly, of course) but you will be safely brought home. And next time when something goes wrong you won’t get a refuse either. And I’m sure you will be ready to act the same in return.

　　当你知道有一个人（或者几个人）在任何情况下都会帮助你的时候，这种感觉是最珍贵的。情况可能是任何类型，但重要的是当你因为你的车坏了的时候，你打电话给他们要他们载你一程的时候，你并不感到尴尬。你很可能会被教训说有你这样一个朋友有多好（当然是开玩笑的），但是你肯定会被安全送回家。下次当什么出错的时候，你也不会遭到拒绝。我干肯定你也做好了这样回报的准备。

　　4. Good listener

　　4.好的倾听者

　　As a flood of problems and worries catches you up, sometimes it is the best remedy⁵ to talk to someone who would hear you out. You don’t need any advice or help, just to talk to that person and not to see judgment⁶ in their eyes. If you have such a person, you have to value them.

　　当问题和忧虑像洪水一样将你淹没的时候，有时候最好的处方就是告诉那些会听你诉说的人。你不需要任何建议或者帮助，只是跟那个人说话，在他们的眼中看不到任何评判的目光。如果你有这样一个人，你应该重视他们。

1 jealousy   

n.妒忌，嫉妒，猜忌

参考例句：

• Some women have a disposition to jealousy.有些女人生性爱妒忌。
• I can't support your jealousy any longer.我再也无法忍受你的嫉妒了。

2 awesome   

adj.令人惊叹的，难得吓人的，很好的

参考例句：

• The church in Ireland has always exercised an awesome power.爱尔兰的教堂一直掌握着令人敬畏的权力。
• That new white convertible is totally awesome.那辆新的白色折篷汽车简直棒极了.

3 motive   

n.动机，目的；adv.发动的，运动的

参考例句：

• The police could not find a motive for the murder.警察不能找到谋杀的动机。
• He had some motive in telling this fable.他讲这寓言故事是有用意的。

4 awkward   

adj.笨拙的，尴尬的，使用不便的，难处理的

参考例句：

• John is so shy and awkward that everyone notices him.约翰如此害羞狼狈，以至于大家都注意到了他。
• I was the only man among the guests and felt rather awkward.作为客人中的唯一男性，我有些窘迫。

5 remedy   

n.药品；治疗(法)；补救办法；vt.医治；治疗

参考例句：

• Your only remedy is to appeal to law.你的惟一补救办法是诉诸法律。
• Is there any remedy for fever?有什么退热药吗？

6 judgment   

n.审判；判断力，识别力，看法，意见

参考例句：

• The chairman flatters himself on his judgment of people.主席自认为他审视人比别人高明。
• He's a man of excellent judgment.他眼力过人。