生活给你灌了哪些毒鸡汤

　　小时候我们喜欢看一些鸡汤类型的文章，鼓舞自己无论有多少困难都可以挺过去。但是随着年纪的长大，我们经历了越来越多的事情，鸡汤文章也不如以前那么有吸引力了，我们最终发现，生活才是最好的老师。那生活都给我们灌过哪些毒鸡汤呢？

　　What Are Some of the Dark Lessons That Life Showed You?

　　生活给你灌了哪些毒鸡汤？

　　获得16.6k好评的回答@Vanessa Ying

　　1. Never tell people 100%, tell them 70% about yourself, and 30% should be hidden.

　　不要对别人全盘托出，只告诉他们70%，剩下的30%应该隐藏起来。

　　2. Anyone you love can die. Any time. Cherish¹ them.

　　你爱的每一个人随时都可能逝去，请珍惜他们。

　　3. Fairness is unnatural². Nothing is 100% fair.

　　公平是违背自然规律的，没有绝对的公平。

　　4. Live life the way you want to live it. Because even people who care for you can’t be with you every step of the way.

　　按照你想要的生活方式去生活，因为即使是那些关心你的人也没有办法陪你走旅途的每一步。

　　5. People only want to hear the good, not the bad.

　　人只喜欢听好消息。

　　6. Respect yourself, because people can see if you don’t.

　　尊重自己。因为如果你没有尊重自己，别人看得出来。

　　7. Everyone has a mask and they play different ones to different people.

　　每个人都带着一个面具，对不一样的人漏出不一样的嘴脸。

　　8. Once you hurt someone, they’re not likely to forget. They will always remember how much you’ve hurt them. One negligible³ action can have devastating⁴ consequences.

　　一旦你伤害了别人，他们并不会轻易忘记。他们会一直记住你伤他们多深。一个微不足道的举动可能会带来毁灭性的后果。

　　9. Appearances DO matter. We live in a condemnatory⁵, judgmental world.

　　外表确实很重要。我们生活在一个非难的、评头论足的世界。

　　10. It is impossible to please everyone. There will ALWAYS be someone who disagrees with you, and frankly⁶, you’re not living life if you don’t have enemies.

　　不可能取悦每一个人。总会有人不赞同你，坦白地说，如果你没有敌人那你就算不上在生活。

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　　获得8.3k好评的回答@Prakarsh Chaurasia

　　Life is not about facebook likes, anymore.

　　社交网络上的点赞并不是生活的全部。

　　No one cares about you during your failure except your family members.

　　没有人会在你失败的时候真正关心你，除了你的家人。

　　Success is the best revenge⁷. No one gives a shit when you're nothing.

　　成功是最好的复仇，当你什么都不是的时候，没有人会在乎。

　　Health is wealth, no matter how much you earn or how much you are focused towards your career, never ever ignore your health.

　　健康就是财富，不管你可以赚多少钱、多专注于工作，永远不要忽视你的健康。

　　Money and education matter in life.

　　钱和学业很重要。

　　Sometimes you have to give up on people. Not because you don't care, but because they don't.

　　有时候你不得不放弃了某些人，并不是因为你不在乎，而是他们并不在乎。

　　Never ever judge a book by its cover.

　　不要单凭一本书的封面就去评价它（不要以貌取人）。

1 cherish   

vt.抱有，怀有（希望等），爱护，抚育，珍爱

参考例句：

• I cherish for you the liveliest feeling of affection and gratitude.我对你怀有最强烈的爱和感激之情。
• We must cherish experience acquired at the cost of blood.我们必须珍惜用鲜血换来的经验。

2 unnatural   

adj.不自然的；反常的

参考例句：

• Did her behaviour seem unnatural in any way?她有任何反常表现吗？
• She has an unnatural smile on her face.她脸上挂着做作的微笑。

3 negligible   

adj. 可以忽略的，微不足道的

参考例句：

• There is a negligible difference in meaning between these two words.这两个词之间在意义上差别是极小的。
• He is a negligible person in the government.在政府中他是个微不足道的人。

4 devastating   

adj.毁灭性的，令人震惊的，强有力的

参考例句：

• It is the most devastating storm in 20 years.这是20年来破坏性最大的风暴。
• Affairs do have a devastating effect on marriages.婚外情确实会对婚姻造成毁灭性的影响。

5 condemnatory   

adj. 非难的，处罚的

参考例句：

• Public security punishs a law to also have corresponding condemnatory regulation. 治安处罚法也有相应的处罚规定。
• Public security management does not have such regulation on condemnatory byelaw, can not detain. 治安治理处罚条例上没有这样的规定，不可以拘留的。

6 frankly   

adv.坦白地，直率地；坦率地说

参考例句：

• To speak frankly, I don't like the idea at all.老实说，我一点也不赞成这个主意。
• Frankly speaking, I'm not opposed to reform.坦率地说，我不反对改革。

7 revenge   

v.报...之仇，为...报仇 ；n.报仇，复仇

参考例句：

• She poisoned his mind with ideas of hate and revenge.她用复仇的思想来毒害他的心灵。
• There was anger in his eyes and revenge in his heart.他两眼闪现怒火，一心只想复仇。