环球慢速英语 婚后忧郁(5)

Voice 2: So, lower your expectations and all will be fine? Well, not exactly! But looking at things as they really are will help! Many people have a false idea of love and marriage. They expect it to be like the love stories in the films. Doctor Greer says,

声音2：那是不是降低期望值会令一切都好起来？并不完全如此。不过，了解事情的真相会有帮助的！许多人对爱情和婚姻有错误的想法。他们希望爱情和婚姻能像电影里的爱情故事那样。格里尔医生表示，

Voice 3: "Do not feel troubled if your husband cannot fix everything around the house. A wedding ring on your finger does not make him Super-husband. And it does not make you Super-wife."

声音3：“如果你的丈夫不能将家里的一切修好，不要感到烦恼。你手指上戴的结婚戒指不会让他成为超级丈夫。也不会让你成为超级妻子。”

Voice 1: Marriage needs work straight away, says Doctor Greer. You should know this from the start. Then, you are less likely to get a horrible shock later. You should make time for each other from the beginning. Then you can avoid problems later on.

声音1：格里尔医生说，婚姻需要直接付出努力。你应该从一开始就知道这点。这样，你之后就不太可能遭到可怕的打击。你应该从一开始就为彼此留出时间。这样你以后就能避免问题。